"There is a certain organized chaos in this life that we lead, and that's what makes it beautiful," Oscar Basing said to himself as he sat on the front porch, reflecting on all the strange things that had happened to him lately. Sipping on his ice tea, Oscar looked at the sprawling sea of greenery that filled the landscape, everywhere he looked. This was Bossier City, Louisiana, in summer time. His hometown at her very best, and Oscar wouldn't have it any other way.
It has often been said that there is no place like home, and Oscar agreed with that statement, but he had to leave home in order to truly miss it. After spending a year in the Capital of Canada, Oscar was glad to be home. He'd missed the South and her ways, her beauty and her simplicity. Canada's love-hate relationship with immigration and racial diversity, and the general passive-aggressiveness of her people irked Oscar in a major way.
In the South, you didn't have to do much guess work, since most people let you know where you stood. Oscar had lived his whole life in Bossier City and knew who was what, and how people felt about one another. No secrets in the Dirty South. The brother felt at peace sipping tea on his family farm's front porch on a Saturday morning, enjoying some tranquility for a change.
Oscar's parents, Louis Basing and Viola Araujo-Basing were away in the City of Benton, Louisiana, for a three-day conference of Minority Farmers. In their absence, they entrusted the family estate to their twenty-year-old son. A lot of parents would have felt nervous about leaving their college-age son at home for three days, imagining everything from drunken parties to sex and drugs, but not the Basing folks. Nope, they raised their son Oscar right.
Located in the heart of Louisiana, Bossier City is small and quaint, and although it could never rival bigger southern cities like Atlanta or Fayetteville, it has a charm that is uniquely its own. African Americans like Oscar here made up twenty one percent of the town's population, and by and large, it was a nice place to live. Black or white, folks around Bossier City made an effort to get along. Bossier was a fine example of the integrated and progressive New South.
Oscar's parents met in Bossier in the mid 1990s. In those days, racial relations between blacks and whites across Louisiana and the rest of the South were still tense. This was the time of Bill Clinton and O.J. Simpson, after all. Oscar's father Louis Basing was new to the South in those less than halcyon days, having moved to Louisiana from his hometown of Portmore, Jamaica. While studying at Bossier Parish Community College, Louis Basing met Viola Araujo, a beautiful, bronze-skinned and raven-haired newcomer originally from San Miguel, El Salvador. It was love at first sight...
Louis Basing was smitten with Viola Araujo and couldn't let such a lovely lady slip through his fingers. Of course, there were racial and cultural differences to consider. The tall, dark-skinned, sturdy Jamaican student found himself drawn to the petite Latin beauty, and the feeling was quite mutual. A swift romance ensued, followed by an enduring marriage, and the two of them ended up settling in Bossier Parish. Their son Oscar was born a year after the happy couple graduated from Bossier Parish Community College.
Oscar Basing closed his eyes, and let his thoughts drift to a different place, and in doing so, he left the South behind. Oscar found himself in the City of Ottawa, Ontario, where he'd spent a year as an exchange student at the University of Ottawa. It's where he met the unforgettable Habiba Hajjar, the lovely foreign student originally from Dammam, Saudi Arabia.
"Salaam, brother, do you know where Monpetit Hall is?" those were Habiba's first words to Oscar, when they met in September. Oscar looked at the short, round little woman with the smiling face framed by a dark Hijab, and paused before answering her question. A newcomer to the University of Ottawa by way of an exchange program with Tulane University, Oscar was still getting his bearings at his new school and couldn't believe this Arab gal was asking him for directions.
"Um, no ma'am, but I have GPS on my phone, and some nice apps," Oscar replied, and he pulled out his iPhone, and the short Arab gal leaned closer as he showed it to her. Oscar clicked on the apps, pulling a transparent map of the University of Ottawa. They were standing in front of the University of Ottawa sign, the one located down the street from the nearby Rideau Shopping Center. Fortunately, according to the apps, Monpetit Hall wasn't far away...
"Thank you so much, brother, I'm Habiba, I'm a grad student, in engineering," the little Arab gal said, and Oscar smiled and offered her his hand, which she did not shake. Awkwardly, he stared at her. Habiba hastily made a fist, which she rapped against his, and Oscar nodded slowly, strange little woman, he thought, and he wondered how to best get on his way without offending her. A southern gentleman is always courteous to the ladies, no matter where he finds himself...
"Pleasure to meet you ma'am, I'm Oscar, second-year undergrad, in business," Oscar replied, after bumping his fist against Habiba's. Having gotten introductions out of the way, he nodded respectfully, wished her a good day and then went on his way. Oscar waved at Habiba and headed for his next class, located on the other side of the University of Ottawa campus, which sprawled over much of downtown Ottawa. Oscar ended up half a mile away, at a building on King Edward Avenue, close to the campus gym. What a trip...
Oscar didn't think much of it at the time, but his fate and that of Habiba, the young lady he'd just met were intertwined. He would later run into her at the International Students Office, where he asked the administrators about obtaining a work permit and a social insurance number, in order to get himself a part-time job to help with costs.
"One of our volunteer administrators also does volunteer work for City Hall, she can tell you more," said Ms. Glenn, the blonde-haired, fifty-something white lady working at the International Students Office. Oscar smiled and then went back to the office waiting room. Imagine his surprise when a familiar-looking, Hijab-wearing, diminutive gal came out to meet him, a big smile on her lovely face.
"Salaam, brother, Oscar, right? I'm Habiba, we met the other day," Habiba said, greeting Oscar joyfully and he grinned, and was about to offer a handshake, then remembered that she had a thing about that. He made a fist, and Habiba bumped her fist against his. Still smiling, Habiba looked Oscar up and down, and the young man took that as his cue to speak.