After over 30 years of marriage, we finally were becoming empty nesters again.
When we first were married, we had been in our mid 20's and during those first few years had an open mind about occasional sex play exploring and attending swinger parties.
Once the kids started to come along, and the family grew, those activities we put aside for more of a long term PTA like lifestyle. We did maintain a healthy sex life as much as possible, spicing up things on occasion with adult porn, a couple of overnight adult getaways when possible and Ann's collection of toys.
A few years ago, We were watching some adult video clips online, and one with an amateur wife taking on two black men while her husband watched, then came on next. Ann then searched that subject for a few more videos that night.
A few weeks later, she brought up the subject over drinks while we were out at a local bar. She had never told me before, but prior to us dating, she had a brief affair with a Blackman she had met at a Red Onion bar. She told me it was only very casual and they only went out a few times.
Since then, when we did watch any adult porn, she made sure some was of amateur wives having sex with black men. And while that subject had been one of a number of fantasies we had used for dirty talk during sex, it slowly became the main subject some nights.
Now that the kids were adults and we were alone at home, we started to discuss trying swinging again after this very long break. We quietly surfed the various groups online, and even attended a couple of meet and greets at bars for the more local groups.
Like we had done years before, we set some boundaries and rules, such as we both had to mutually agree before we played with anyone or couple, that our relationship was a priority and safe sex was a must.
In our middle to late 50s, we were both not the same bodies we had 30 years before. While not in bad shape, we had some extra weight, my hair was now gray, and Ann's figure was a little more curvy, but she still had wonderful 38D natural breasts.
We made some friends, had drinks with a few and even hot tub with another couple with some soft sex play in front of each other that night. After one bar event a few hours from our home, a woman that we had been talking with for awhile went back to our hotel and played with us, while we called it a threesome, really making out together, and then her masterbating while we had sex. Still, it was exciting and a little extra spice to our sex life that had been on hold for years.
Then one night in bed, Ann did talk about a threesome with another man during sex turned towards me watching her have sex with a black man. At first I figured it was just a really exciting fantasy she was going with, but from a dirty story, we started to talk about her wanting to try it. Even offering me a chance at a true threesome with another woman where Ann was willing to do anything I suggested with that future fantasy woman.
Our sex play stopped and we talked out this idea of her's for a while. We both got excited and turned on just discussing it rather than any dirty story we had made up lately.
A few days later, the subject came up again. This time without the naked in bed passion, but a true conversation. We ended up talking about it a few times, we mutually agreed that it was going to be a threesome with Ann the center of attention and not cuckold play, with that worked out, I finally agreed to go alone with her idea.
The next meet and greet that we attended, Ann searched for any possible partners to fulfill her need. We also searched the Lifestyle site from black men that may catch her interest that were around our age.
A few months went by, we attended a couple of lifestyle bar take over mixers, adult videos of wives with black men was still a new video interest of Ann's and that fantasy was still a pretty hot sex story when we were in bed. There had been some IM from potential men, but so far, nothing that struck an interest to follow up on.
Finally, a guy liked one of Ann's posted photos and then chatted with her using the site instant messenger and exchanging emails. He was a Black man, with a bald head, about our age, his wife had passed away and he had recently started to explore the lifestyle. His name was Andrew.
We agreed to meet at a lifestyle bar event a few weeks later. We got our room down the street from the bar, and after we got changed to go, had a shot of tequila for some liquid courage, really, Ann had a couple.
We agreed on some text that we could send to each other, one word that we mean we need to walk away from whomever we were talking with, or that it was cool for one of us to step away and let the other one flirt.
She wore a long green tube dress, with her boobs almost about to pop out of the top.