I found one way to connect with other men looking for some fun was on chat lines on the phone. There were a few that were free although many charged for the service and you could get on and find others interested in the same thing you were interested in.
The particular time I'm thinking about started off as many of them did with me getting an invitation to talk with another guy about what it was we were looking for. During the course of the first few minutes it became clear that he was looking for a man to come over and give him a blow job. He made it clear that he was not into reciprocating just wanting the relief of getting off in someone's mouth. We talked about it for a while with him asking me questions about how much experience I had.
I was in my mid-thirties by now and had been with dozens of men both as a sucker and as one getting sucked. Many times we would pleasure each other but there were also lots of times when I had provided oral relief to other men with no return of the favour.
He told me he was in his late 40's and described himself for me. He said he was 6ft tall about 200 lbs half bald, wore glasses and was mostly grey haired. He also said he had a 7 inch cut cock and large hanging balls. We talked about what he liked to do with guys and he said all he had ever done was get blowjobs and that that was all he was interested in.
We talked about that sort of thing over a few nights and also about how old we were when we had started. It turned out that like myself he had first been introduced to male sex in his late teens and had kept going back for more form time to time ever since. Finally after probably 2 or three hours of talking over much of a week he agreed to meet. We set up a time and he gave me his address. The meeting was to take place the next day around dinner time.
I was always nervous about meeting someone new for the first time but as I pulled up outside his house I decided to go ahead and at least see him. When I knocked on the door I heard him moving in the house and then the door opened and he invited me in. We went into his den and I saw that on the computer he had there he had some gay sex playing. I asked him what it was about and he said it was of a couple of younger guys, early 20's that were getting together for a suck fest. We sat down on 2 chairs to watch for a few minutes and I told him to go ahead and paly with himself if he wanted.
At that he stood up and took off his pants showing that he had not been exaggerating about his package. Even soft it was at least 7 inches long and very thick. As he started to stroke his cock he told me that he was married and that his wife was at work for another couple of hours. He said that she didn't like sucking him because he was too big for her and her jaw got tired from having to keep her mouth open so wide. Watching his now hardening cock I could believe it. The head of his cock was now the size of a plum and the shaft was covered in thick veins. His balls were even bigger and hung between his legs resting on the seat of his chair. It was obvious that he trimmed his pubic hair and also that the talk and the movie were making him quite horny as precome was leaking out the end of his cock.