This story is loosely based on real events in 1977. Loosely, because it was a long time ago and I can't remember it as well as I'd like to. Of course it was long before HIV, and we didn't use condoms.
I came out as gay in my late twenties while at university in Townsville, North Queensland in 1974. It was still a scary time to be gay because male-male sex was illegal and the local paper, The Townsville Daily Bulletin, was particularly nasty about gay issues. Overall, Townsville was not exactly the most broad-minded place in the country.
But in 1977 I had the chance to do a talk-back show in Townsville about homosexuality, with another gay guy I knew. It was on the local commercial radio station, and I was pretty nervous about it as it was a "first" for Townsville and for both of us, but it went ok.
A few days later, as a student union official I had to introduce someone to talk about an art exhibition that was on display in the union's refectory. I can't remember anything about the exhibition, except that shortly after the intro a tall good-looking blonde guy in his mid-twenties came up to me, gave me a big smile and said, "Hello".
"I'm afraid I don't recognise you" I confessed. Little wonder. He was operating the phone switchboard while I did the talk-back show the other day. And the penny finally dropped -- the hot guy was cruising me. I told him I was about to head home, saying something like "Maybe you'd like to join me for a drink."
We never had a drink of course but we got it on. It was his first time, and I confess I can't remember what we did that day. But once a week for some time afterwards he would drop by at night and we'd have a horny session together.