Getting Ready...

Hi,

I've been fisted by women. Their hands are smaller, but I've been trying to find a guy to try to get in me too.

Getting fisted properly is awesome, finding someone you can relax enough with is the hard part. Being totally relaxed, eager, and ready is critical.

Being ready...clean, most important thing. If you don't have, get an enema bag (hot water bottle), or plumb a shower shot type unit to your shower.

I smoke pot, helps relax greatly, I also use poppers throughout the event.

I get in the shower, wash my ass real good, then fill the bag all the way. Use very warm, but not hot out cold water so you don't burn or cramp. A 1/4 teaspoon of table salt in each bag is reported to help keep you from drying out inside.

I apply a small bit of Vaseline to my hole with my finger...this is where the good feelings start...

I then slide the nozzle of the bag in my ass.

Release the clamp and let the warm water fill me up...as the bag nears empty, I pull the nozzle and wash it off. I then take a couple hits of the poppers, it relaxes you inside and lets the water get deep. I then refill the bag, and really fill myself up...

I hold this a long as I can, taking that time to fully shower. When its been 10 minutes or so, or I can't take it, I hit the toilet and let go. The emptying can take 20 minutes.

Once I feel empty, I repeat the two bag clean out, but this time I push the nozzle past that second sphincter about 6 to 8 inches in. After this it's usually a few more single bag rinse outs, until the water that comes or is totally clean.

Relax for a while after all this, get hard, stroke yourself, get nice and horny...work your abs, and rock side to side for a bit to help move things through you.

Honestly, take a look at a diagram of your physiology, know where the hand is going, make sure your Top has this knowledge. The rectum is where the hand will make it's first fully enveloping stretch...this is the hardest part to handle the first time...if you've been prepped with small toys to large, taking your time, and maybe multiple sessions, you'll finally be ready for the fist.

Tools to have on hand...gloves, use nitrile or latex if you're not allergic. Lube, for fisting and big toy play, I like Crisco, for other stuff, silicone. Crisco comes in small cans (get two) good for one use, and cheap! Towels, a few towels to spread over the bed for a play area, a couple for the Top to wipe up with. Any toys you want to experience in your ready ass...again, silicone material makes a great, big toy...veggies...bottles...plugs...beads...

The Top must trim and file their nails super smooth, and no rings.

You'll probably have another need to evacuate your ass, one more shallow rinse and you should be totally ready...

Give your Top some nice head, get him or her all horny. Take your time, licking everywhere...Once they've cum, get on your knees on the towels...ass up!

Your Top can then get your ass going! They can rim you while your ass is nice and clean, glove up, then slide a finger deep in you...

They will coat their fingers with lube, pushing one, two, three...working your ass open...then maybe sliding a tapered plug, our beads in, maybe some fingers with the toys...

Getting you open takes time, let them play, tell them when you want more, and when there is any pain...uncomfortable is ok, pain is bad. If something hurts, the top needs to hold real still, and then slowly pull out when you're ready. At some point, take a few deep whiffs of the poppers, your ass will relax more and open wider!

You will then be ready for bigger toys, your Top will know when your ready for more by your reactions, moans, and your ass pushing back on its' intruder...begging for more...

This will lead to the point where they will tuck their thumb into their palm and push their whole hand into you!!

Stay still, let yourself adjust, have them pull out, then more poppers, and they can easily push it back in. Do this for a bit until you're really open and feeling good.

Going deeper...your Top will be able to feel that second sphincter with his finger tips, he needs to slowly work it open next...poppers again, communicate what he's trying so you can work together. As he works it open and rolls his hand deeper into you, his forearm will work its way into your hole...oh yeah...

Now... roll over, let the Top watch your face as he fists your gaping ass...

When you're feeling like it's too much, ask your Top to suck your cock as he twists and turns his hand in you. As you're about to cum, if your Top pulls their hand out quickly you will cum so hard, filing their mouth!

The poppers will cause terrible getting hard, but once it happens...BOOM!!!

You may find you still want more in your ass, keep playing, see if your top can work you open enough to slide his cock in too and jack himself off in your ass...but stop once discomfort sets in...too much can hurt...sensitive area...

You can then switch and let them feel as good!

Would like to live this out too...