Some context for my stories. My stories are about individuals born in the 1940's and brought up in the conservative culture that existed before modern birth control options were available. In addition, we all worked for the government with high level security clearances and swinging, cheating on spouses, etc., were grounds for losing the clearances and jobs. So what younger readers may find as silly concerns or behavior actions, were valid at the time.
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About a year after the night Sue and I had a threesome with Mike in his hotel room (related in "It's All About Her") Mike called to tell me that he and his wife Gail were planning to visit us in a few weeks. When I told Sue, she was apprehensive about the visit. When I asked her what the problem was, she told me that she was concerned that Mike had told Gail about our threesome and wasn't sure how to react when they arrived. I called Mike a couple of days later and asked him if he had told Gail about the threesome and he swore he had not. I told Sue about the call and she was relieved.
Mike and Gail arrived at our house in their motorhome and parked it in our driveway. The day they arrived was spent renewing our friendship with small talk and a casual dinner. About 10AM the next day I walked out of my house into the driveway where Mike was at the back of his motorhome while Gail was watching us through the back window. As I walked up to Mike, he says, "How about you sleep with Gail in the motorhome tonight and I'll sleep with Sue in the house."
The question being asked without any preamble surprised me. After a moment I said, "Let's talk about it over dinner in the restaurant tonight."
Mike said, "Okay."
We both went on with our tasks, but I very quickly finished up and went back into the house where I told Sue that Mike had openly propositioned me to swap partners for the night and that I told him that we would discuss it over dinner at the restaurant. She didn't comment and went on with what she was doing.
After thinking about what I planned to discuss over dinner, I realized that there were several options that would change the dynamics of swapping spouses. I thought a same room swap would be the biggest turn on for me. It also was possible that Sue or Gail might be feeling pressure to go through with the proposal to meet their husband's expectations. I then went to my office I typed up and printed four copies of a list of potential scenarios for the evening and four small ballots with boxes for each numbered scenario. I also packed a small suitcase with some items to include water and wine. I then told Sue that I needed to go into town for an hour or so.
I went to a nice motel fairly close to the restaurant where we planned to eat dinner that evening. I booked a double bed room for the night on the back side of the motel away from the highway. In the room, I unpacked the suitcase to include putting the water and wine into the small refrigerator. Then I went home to get ready to go out. I purposely avoided talking to Sue about what she thought about Mike's proposition.
We fed the kids around 5PM and showered and dressed to go out. Once the babysitter arrived, we all got in our car and drove to the restaurant making small talk on the way. I had a manila file folder with me that included the four copies of scenarios and the corresponding ballots.
After we were seated in the restaurant and ordered our drinks I started the discussion by saying, "As you all know, Mike suggested that I sleep with Gail in the motorhome while he sleep with Sue in the house tonight. I told him that we would discuss it tonight over dinner. I know that both Sue and Gail are aware of this suggestion, but I'm not sure everyone, including me is ready to do this. So, I think I have a way to make sure everyone has a chance to decide what they want to do anonymously. I also think that more options should be on the table as there may be options that increase trust or add some spice. So I am going to give each of you a list of potential options for what we do when we leave the restaurant. After we order desert, I will give each of you a ballot where you will mark an X on the option you want, fold it in half and put it in a paper bag. Once everyone has put their ballots in the bag, I will dump them out on the table and we will go through them. The highest marked option on any ballot will rule regardless of the others. That is if one person marks the option that they want to go home and spend the night with their spouse that is what will happen. Okay?"
Mike asked, "Why can't everyone just say if they want to?"
I responded, "Because that puts pressure on everyone to agree. As soon as our drinks are served, I'll give you the options paper and go over them. Then you can review them over dinner and think about which option you want to choose."
Shortly thereafter, the drinks arrived. After taking a drink of my vodka tonic, I opened the folder and handed Mike, Gail, and Sue each a copy while keeping one for me. I said, "Since the first three options require us to be in a room together, I've rented a motel room and have stocked some drinks in the room if the votes come out that way. Regardless we have to be home in 5 hours to get the babysitter home.
I continued, "The first option is to go to the motel room, which has two beds, pair off with each other's spouses and get busy.
The second option is to go to the motel room and have a soft swap; that is sex with our spouses in front of the other couple.
The third option is a little complicated. It is a series of timed steps or phases. I have a timer for this option in the room.
- Step one: The husbands start with their spouse and make out, restricted to kissing, for 3 minutes. When time is up, the husbands switch spouses and make out for another 3 minutes, again restricted to kissing. When time is up, the husbands return to their spouse.
-Step two: The husband and wife have 5 minutes to undress each other above the waist and fondle each other above the waist. When the time is up, the husbands switch spouses and they have only 3 minutes since there is no need to remove clothing above the waist to fondle, kiss, etc., each other again the waist. When time is up, the husbands return to their spouse.
-Step three: The husband and wife have 5 minutes to completely undress each other and then fondle each other below the waist without oral sex. When the time is up, the husbands switch spouses and they have 3 minutes to fondle each other below the waist without oral sex. When time is up, the husbands return to their spouse.
-Step four: The husband and wife have 3 minutes to engage in oral sex. When the time is up, the husbands switch spouses and have 3 minutes to engage in oral sex. When time is up, a decision has to be made on whether to continue with the switched spouse and engage in sex or continue the timed changes through the missionary position (first with spouse, then switch) doggie position, woman on top, etc.