Nancy was still sitting at the kitchen table, pondering everything that had happened the evening before. Yes, she still had misgivings, but she had also come to realize that Sam really was a wonderful partner, one who deserved some focus being put on this erotic sexual fantasy of his. She was his closest, most intimate partner in the whole world; his commitment to her was clear, and in terms of what she wanted from him, this was all she could ask for.
As for what he wanted from her, she was the one he wanted to explore these naughty teasing games with, not anyone else. Sure, it was very new to her, and it moved them more towards some aspects of alternative sexuality than she had previously realized were of interest to him. But it was also clear that it was something very intimate and personal for him, something that he wanted to have an open and honest communication about, and something he very much wanted to share with her...
That was a good sign; she preferred that he share his desires with her than to have him keep them hidden and end up exploring them some other way, perhaps with another woman. That happens all too often; a guy has some kinky fantasy or fetish and when he tries to express it to his girl, she reacts with disgust and revulsion.
That only leads to hurt feelings, secrecy, and frequently, ultimate betrayal. So even if she isn't particularly turned on by his fantasy, and especially if it seems relatively benign, then she should really think about accepting it and even embracing it.
At first the idea of being a tease didn't really turn her on, mostly because she didn't have any exposure to the context of it - but that was quickly changing! She had already discovered that this could be a way to keep him focused on her as opposed to his having this unfulfilled fantasy that might lead him in other directions away from her.
And she continued to ponder all the things he was doing right: he was connecting with her emotionally (just the way she wanted and in ways many men don't), he was participating in an active and happy social life for both of them, and he was doing lots of things for her that would make most women happy.
She also thought about how easily she had fallen into the role of being a cockteaser the night before. She got dressed up all sexy for him, enticed him and toyed with him at dinner, then some more back at their place, and ultimately used him to get herself off. And then she left him hanging in a state of heightened arousal! It wasn't something she would have thought of doing to him on her own, but after some expert advice and coaching from her sexy friend Christy, it was easy.
Of course, seeing the way Sam reacted to her naughty games had really helped her to turn a corner too, so much so that she was comfortable making a decision to explore his kinky desires more thoroughly...
And again, the best part was the idea that those desires could be made to be more about her than him; now that was a real revelation! So why not have some fun with it, learn some more from Christy and get into it with him? To top it all off, there was something she didn't know it yet, which was that there would be other women in their lives who would help her along on this path as well...
Anyway, as she finished her cup of coffee and pondered all this, a text came in. Guess who...
"Hey girl! How ya doin' this morning?" It was from Christy.
"Good," Nancy typed back, "hanging out in the kitchen with a cup of coffee. And thinking about all this prick teasing stuff."
"Oh yeah? It sounds like Sam really enjoyed it. That's pretty much a given, though! The real question is, did YOU?"
"Well yes, for sure, but..."
"But what?"
"It's just so unfamiliar, taking the lead and being so naughty with him like that. Damn, it really did turn me on, though!"
"Ooo! That's a good sign, hon..."