Nancy was watching him carefully as he caressed her now; she was really enjoying his all-too-obvious sexual arousal as he felt up her hips, waist and back. And that's all he was doing; his hands weren't going anywhere else and he wasn't getting too aggressive or anything, just gazing admiringly into her eyes as he worshipped her body. His attentiveness was simply delightful, but it was also the passive way he was treating her that was such a pleasant surprise for her. She was just loving it!
She was finally showing him some interest in being the naughty, seductive teaser girl he wanted her to be, and it was really clear how incredibly thrilling it was for him. It was for that reason that she wanted to explore it more with him, but it was also because it was so empowering for HER. Yes, indeed, between her discussion with Christy that day and her ongoing interaction with Sam that night, her perception of being a tease was changing rather quickly...
Still, despite her increased level of interest in being brazenly seductive for him, she felt a need to caution him too, so she patted his leg gently and said with a playful tone, "Now Sammy, you'll have to be patient with me, because you know how I used to feel about this kind of thing. I'm not gonna dress up all slutty and objectify myself just because you want me to. I'll admit there are still some conflicted feelings around it, okay?
"But I get it, it's pretty common for you guys to want your women to be gorgeous and sexy, and I think I can learn how to cater to that a bit. But the thing is, it's a lot of work to get all dolled up, so if it's all about you and whatever little kinks or fantasies you have, then that's not right. I'm sure you can understand that."
As she spoke, her fingers danced lightly along the still bent-in-half bulge in his pants, tapping on it playfully. These little love-pats had an assertive quality to them, like she was gently hitting his cock but nowhere near hard enough to hurt. Things went on like that for about a minute longer as she expressed her mixed feelings, and when she was done speaking she slid her fingers inside the hem of his pants and began to fuss with the button.
Sam just knelt there listening to her as he let her have her way; she was taking the lead just like he wanted her to, and he could sense where she was going with her comments. It was clear there should be some kind of reciprocal understanding around this kind of thing, and he nodded his head in agreement with every word she said as he continued to gently touch and caress her body. He was finding it almost impossible to speak, but finally he managed to stammer, "Y-yes Nancy."
She went on, "So that's why lots of women don't want to sexualize themselves for their boyfriends and hubbies, because it takes a lot of effort and you boys tend to become very focused on your own needs when you are aroused. And usually when that happens, you don't think about the needs of your lady. But another thing Christy and I talked about today is that if we girls don't do it for our men, there are plenty of other girls out there who will!
"She's clearly like that herself, and she said she knows a few other girls who love being that way. They're really pretty too, and they're very skilled at this dressing up and flirting thing. They know exactly how to use a guy's sexual desires to their advantage, and they are quite capable of enticing and attracting guys to them. To be blunt, if they want a guy... they can usually get him. And you know, honey," and she paused, taking her hand off his crotch for a moment and playfully patting his cheek, "it even occurred to me that maybe you've had some experience being seduced and teased by a sexually aggressive girl like that."
That last sentence took on a bit of an accusatory tone, and her comment represented quite a pivotal moment. There was clearly some meaning behind her reference, with some obvious conflicted feelings as well. It was almost like she had accused him of cheating, even though her exact words made it clear that she was referring to something from his past!
She would be elaborating on it for him soon enough, but for now she was curious about how he would react. So she paused after saying it to really let it sink in, and as she looked at him, studying his response to her provocative comments, she noticed him blushing. She held his gaze for a second, observing his embarrassment as she fussed with the button of his pants some more.
After a few more moments of this she finally popped the button open and teasingly began tugging on the zipper with her pretty, slender fingers. She flashed him a big smile as she pulled the zipper down a little, pausing to watch his reaction, then pulling it down some more, waiting a bit more, and finally giving him a seductive wink before pulling it down the rest of the way. And she was purposely not saying anything else yet, just to make certain that her last comment became fully cemented in his mind as she continued her little seduction...
The way she was taking her time was incredible, she was really making him wait for it and this new technique seemed to be flowing from her quite naturally. His bulge was slightly more undressed now, a little more available to her but still bent in half in his underwear. So of course, her fingers began zeroing in on it, the tips of them casually gliding up and down on it as she added a little followup comment to her last statement, "I mean, this interest in being teased had to come from somewhere, right? And now that I think about it, you actually did refer to some naughty experiences you had with some girl in college, didn't you, you naughty boy. So maybe sometime soon you'll have to tell me some more about her!"
Sam's face turned beet red, and he looked down again shamefully, hanging his head low, not even able to look at her. Nancy knew she had hit the nail on the head, and she was simply dying to interrogate him about whatever it was she had stumbled upon. It was definitely an interesting discovery, and also quite a surprise for her to realize that he was so self-conscious about having his past sexual experiences exposed like that, even a little bit.
She actually pitied him at that moment, feeling sorry for him and starting to understand that he was ashamed of own feelings. They had been dating quite a while, and he hadn't felt comfortable telling her the details of this particular aspect of his sexuality. Sure, he had danced around it, but she suddenly realized that she had been part of the problem too. She had probably made his shame worse because she had her own negative stereotypical reactions about it when he kept trying to bring it up, and she had flatly rejected his suggestions for her to become more seductive.