I like your list. The one you posted with all the "some day" fetish things. It seems to me that you think that these things should be singularly explored, slowly and carefully. That may be true. But what if they were strung together as a coherent narrative of exploration? They would read something like this ...
To have a scene written for you on literotica, to be guided to act out what you have read, with punishment for deviating. This is your scene and I am your guide. Together with my switch / playmate, I will be taking you on this journey. And as I've done you the favour of exploring it in writing first, I expect you to follow your instructions to the letter.
Arriving as instructed at my apartment building, wearing pretty and revealing clothes. Stockings, heels, skirt and corset. Sweating and trembling a little with anticipation and fear. You know where to wait for me, you've been instructed.
I could keep you waiting there, but I don't. Quite apart from anything else, I want to watch what happens next.
You've dreamt about it but the reality is more intense than you imagined. Grabbed from behind without warning. Knowing it's going to happen and that protests are futile but protesting anyway, so that you'll be gagged first and can whimper freely. My apartment is the only one with its own side entrance up a long garden path. Perhaps he'll bind your hands with bondage tape and blindfold you, then drag you up the path. Or immobilise you and use a trolley to wheel you, even more helpless and aroused.
Go on, struggle, I know you want to. He's quite strong, so you won't get away and I'm sure he'll enjoy your vulnerable squirming.
Onto my terrace, with the suspension hook and the play apparatus. I live here alone, so can suit myself, and do. You have your instructions so you know what happens next. At least in outline. Unwound from your temporary bondage, forced to kneel at my feet and promise obedience, in a shaking voice.
He will prepare you for play. Stripped of the clothes that decorate you, reduced to the play toy that you want to be. Hands on your head, legs apart. Remember your safe word. If you are gagged and need to say something, click your fingers or drop the item in your hand. Know that we are both watching you and checking on you all the time.
And know that we are both enjoying this. All of it. The start is always something you want to draw out a little.
A blindfold to disorient you but also make you free. A gag, to open your mouth and help you whimper and drool and make pretty little noises.
You can hear us talking and touching, hear rope coiling out on the floor. Then it begins.
A rope corset is always beautiful. On breasts like yours, it serves more than the purpose of beauty, it offers you up for play. Keeps your breathing constrained. Makes your breasts ache.
It's very pretty to watch. I'm torn between watching your face and his. You are sinking into subspace and delicious relaxation, knowing that you are in our hands. He is focused and intense, blue eyes glacial with concentration and body eager with pleasure. Rope winding around you, a living piece of art, where each growing bond frees you more. I lean back and watch, sip my drink and think of the evening ahead.