I would like to tell you about something weird that happened to me lately. I am a hetero man in my late 50s and I have been happily married for over 30 years now to a woman I love very much.
Nevertheless, I have this fantasy in my mind about wrestling a guy and applying (or suffering in) some sexually oriented holds. The thought of being pinned in a high schoolboy pin by someone and then being forced to smell the crotch of his jeans/ leather pants or Speedo is a huge turn-on for me and it has been this way as long as I can remember.
I never fantasized about having real sex with another man and I never did, the wrestling fantasy also never really happened. That is, when I was in college of course, there were a few occasions when it did happen but always very short and never so explicit.
A few months ago, my wife went on a long weekend with her tennis group, and I decided to go out and have a few beers in the town center, where we had just moved in. In the third bar I visited, I was sitting at a table, sipping my third beer of the evening and scrolling through my Instagram when, from the corner of my eye, I spotted a guy who was sitting alone at the bar, wearing rather tight-fitting black leather pants and a white t-shirt.
As always, leather pants drew my attention immediately and my gaze rested a bit longer on him than normal.
I turned back to my Instagram, but after a few minutes, he came over to my table, introduced himself as John, and asked if he could join me for a drink.
He seemed to be a sympathetic bloke so I said:
Of course, I am alone for the weekend so it's nice to have someone to talk to.