I could scarcely believe the conversation that I had been having with Joni. We were at my place after having met in a most extraordinary way. It sounds cliche-like, but it really did happen that way. We met in a crowded cafe at a mall, and two hours later we were in my living room. We didn't jump into bed right away, although the talk was about sex.
The first surprise came when I asked Joni what she did for a living, and she said she was a teacher. I was silent, waiting for her to explain more, and she just looked into my eyes. Then she said, "I am a kind of sex teacher." She definitely had my attention then, and after I awkwardly said something like, "Oh, really?" she tossed me more tidbits. The facts were rather disjoint, and I think she planned it that way. She mentioned something about being in a sisterhood, and training the trainers. My imagination drifted to scenes of women gathered around a fire, intoning chants and wearing long robes. As if reading my thoughts she laughed and said that they are for the most part ordinary women with what they consider an enlightened view of sex.
"You see," she said enthusiastically while leaning forward, looking directly into my eyes, "Sexual arousal is one of the most powerful forces in existence. That's why governments and many religions try to control or regulate sex. That's why advertisers try to relate almost everything to sex." She slightly puckered her lips for a few seconds and said, "Do you have any doubts about the power of sexual arousal?" I wanted to hold her and press my lips to hers, but something inside said, 'not yet'.
I shook my head slowly in answer to her question. I had no doubt of the power of arousal after she pointed it out.
"The sexual 'act' itself is extremely powerful," she continued. "The female orgasm has tremendous impact. Think about the male ejaculation - the way the body propels those spurts of semen. That's a very powerful thing."
My own arousal increased by the minute as Joni kept talking in those terms. I could only agree with everything she said, and my body seemed to react, to resonate to it.
"What's astounding," Joni exclaimed, "is that most people have no idea of the power available to them through enlightened sex."
My arousal was turning to frustration. Was she just going to tease me over an extended time, and then leave? Still, her conversation and words captivated me, and I kept listening.
"The real power of sex is a sort of exchange of energy, of strength, of qualities that each person likes in the other," she went on. The look on my face told her that I wanted her to continue.
"There's a subconscious urge when a woman wants to have sex with a particular man," she said. "She sees a quality that she likes in the guy, and she can acquire some of that, if she gets him to have sex with her. You've heard of people who have gotten a heart transplant, and developed sudden cravings for the kind of food that the heart donor liked? Well, this is similar, except it's usually done ineffectively." I looked into her eyes, showing interest. She continued.
"So she seduces the guy, and she lets him in. When he ejaculates inside her, or she takes him in her mouth and swallows after his ejaculation, she can potentially absorb some of the guy's strength and power, and the qualities that she likes. That usually happens to some extent, but there are also obstacles. She'd absorb more power if there was conscious intent, and - she's got to give back in the same way that she received."
I wondered what she meant by that last statement. My arousal returned, and I gazed at her face - she wore no makeup, her straight light blonde hair seemed to just fall naturally in place, all the time. I wanted to feel her bare legs with my hands, and feel them in bed, contacting my body.
She grasped my face with her hands, and brought her lips close, almost touching mine. I moved slightly forward, and felt our lips touch - then I pressed in. I wanted to feel all of her lips with mine. I kissed her repeatedly, soft, hard, tender, and forceful. It was especially pleasurable to lightly brush my lips on hers, and then press in for a more sensuous kiss.
After a few moments of this we were both more comfortable and she resumed her discourse. Her hand rested on my thigh, and I grasped her bare leg above the ankle. "When I said that she must give back, I mean that literally - I don't like to admit this, but the woman usually considers opening her legs as giving - she gives the guy pleasure by letting him in, and she gets some sort of benefit. That's not what I'm talking about."
She pressed her lips against mine and we kissed some more. Then she resumed. "Now listen very closely... The woman gives back by letting the guy orally retrieve the mixture of his semen and her cream from her pussy, after his ejaculation." Then she paused for effect, and to see my reaction. I had heard of creampie dessert, as it's called, but I had no idea that it could be a source of power and strength.
"I always thought that was a specialized fetish," I answered. "How do you know that it does what you said?"
"It's not just a fetish," she answered. "We know that it works, we just don't know - or care - exactly how. I'll tell you more about that later. Now, the female has an advantage here - she can be multi-orgasmic during a long lovemaking session. Men are capable of long periods of orgasm, but it takes an incredible amount of practice and self-discipline for a man to do that. And orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. Once the ejaculation happens, the session is over for a while. Would you like to go to bed?"
I grasped her hand and led her to my bed. Somewhat awkwardly I waited for a cue from her. "For now," she said, let's get undressed and lie on the bed."
She was a natural female, all right. Her blonde pubic bush was full and sensuous, and her hips emanated a captivating mystique.
"The hips are the center of the sexual power for a woman," she said. "Im glad you noticed that. We can cultivate your sensitivity. Now I'd like you to touch me gently on my erogenous zones. The woman can allow herself to nonverbally communicate to her lover. If you stimulate a woman enough that way, she can orgasm several times before you even touch her sex. You should be able to pick up the 'vibes' and increase my arousal. Go ahead now."
She lay back as if surrendering. I lightly touched the sides of her face and ran my fingertips across and around her face. A slight hint of a smile came to her mouth. Then I lightly brushed her lips with mine, resisting the powerful urge to press in for kisses. Her breathing quickened, as did mine. Then I felt her chest, above her breasts, and used my lips as well as my hands. My cock throbbed; I desperately wanted to enter Joni.
I put my mouth close to her pussy. I inhaled the sweet scent of her womanhood. Then I gazed upon her beautiful labia and pubic mound for a moment, and then gently licked on the insides of her thighs, just below where they met her hips. She shuddered slightly, which encouraged me. As lightly as I could, I licked her glistening labia for a few moments before pressing in for more hearty kisses there.