A Significant Emotional Event (SEE) is one that shakes a person to their core, prohibiting them from ever being the same again. My SEE happened on June 11th of the year before last. But before I get there, I suppose I should tell you a little bit about me so you can understand why I say this is an SEE.
My name is Norman, don't bother with the last name because I don't need anyone harassing me for what I am about to tell you. I am named after my Great Uncle on my mother's side. I have always hated the name Norman. It's so bland, "Normal Norman" "Normie" "Nor-Man" are all things that I have been called. Sure, there is "Stormin Norman" from the Gulf War, but there are also the Norms of Cheers the TV show. The worst part of my name is that the Great Uncle I was named after never met me and he obviously wasn't won over to leave me a bequest at his death since I am still of modest means, even if I am the richest relative in my family. I own my own business doing work that requires a lot of physical activity so I don't go to the gym because I get enough of a workout just doing my job. I come in at the average American's height of just 5'10'' and 200 pounds. Hair is turning grey and definitely leaving the front of my head in order to descend on my ears, shoulders, and back where it once again takes root.
I was 46 at the time of the event, been a widower once, then married to Kathy. Kathy was 44 and with her came her daughter Sandy, then just 20. I have to admit that Sandy is one hot little minx, but after my first wife died I wanted to dedicate myself to the wife that I married and not look at other women, even if they lived in my house and scampered about scantily clad.
Kathy is an attractive woman, not in the "Oh Wow!" sort of way, but in the mature classical way a good woman looks like. Golden, shoulder length hair, with a smile that can light up a room when she wants, she has 34 Bs on her chest with lovely areolae, and nipples that are enticing. (I call them her "Start buttons"). Her waist is not tiny, but pleasant enough rising above a bubbliscious butt. She works out some, but is not a fanatic about it. Kathy is a real estate agent and is moderately successful, the job lets her get out of the home and see other houses, which she loves to do. I love her laugh, and she is for the most part very kind, even if she really isn't that bright. My first wife was a genius, but you aren't going to get lucky twice, so I went with the pleasing over the perfect.
We were married twelve years before, exactly 18 months after my first wife died. I had taken grief counselling and they were telling me to wait that period of time before I entered into any significant relationships because we are still carrying all the baggage of the previous relationship. I figured I wasn't entering into a relationship unless I was married. However, like all humans, I am always best at lying to myself. I kind of knew that Kathy wasn't the ideal mate, but I was lonely. I had thought I would be considered an attractive catch for women since I stuck in the first marriage all the way through to the hospital and then to the funeral home. I didn't figure it out until later, but when something like that happens to you, you are inadvertently sending off crazy vibes that scare normal people away. I would say that Kathy ignored them, but the fact is she wasn't really normal either.
Her ex had abandoned her and Sandy to go live full time with his boyfriend. I am sure that it must have been crushing to her to be rejected for another man, but she told me that at least she didn't have to have anal sex anymore. Seems like her ex had no use for pussy, just wanted to pound up the Hershey highway. I am not into anal sex at all since my dick is the same size as a Budweiser bottle, it is way too tight on my dick when we have tried anal. Plus, there is something of a turn off when you pull your dick out of an ass and it's covered in blood.
Kathy and I have a relatively normal sex life I suppose. My first wife and I were much more, shall we say liberal. We stumbled into an open marriage by accident, but thoroughly enjoyed it.
At the time I was working 80 plus hours a week trying to get my business off the ground. You only have to pay slave wages when you are the slave. As a result, she was lonely and one thing led to another and she had an affair with my best friend.
Apparently the guilt was too much for her so she had to come clean to me in about the nicest way possible. She managed to get her best friend to join us in bed, and while I was pounding her friend from behind, she started to cry and then told me about her affair. Now, at that moment, there were a lot of conflicting emotions running through me, but the strongest feeling was that of my dick swallowed up in some first class pussy. Needless to say, I forgave her.
We talked about it afterwards and figured out that cheating was only cheating when the other didn't know about it. She allowed me free access to her friend and others, and I allowed her room to roam when I wasn't available. Although I have to admit, it's a lot easier for a woman to get laid than a man, so she had more lovers. Some may call her a slut, but I was one too.
After all, If a woman walked into a bar full of men and declared "Somebody, anybody, everybody, please fuck me!" we would all be gentlemen who would set about coming to the aid of a lady in distress. On the other hand, if a man walked into a bar full of women and said the same thing, the women would all be tossing his ass out on the curb. Sure, there may have been those willing to give him what he needed, but the social stigma of being a slut is something that women fear. Actually, that's not quite true. Women hate other women being a slut, most men love them for the moment at least.
After my wife told me of her affair, our sex life really took off. She had been raised in a very strict household where sex was such a taboo subject she was sure that her parents only had sex twice, once for her, and once again for her little brother. But in opening her up to new experiences, I may have unleashed a monster. She wanted to try it all.
We did fantasy role playing, where I would tell her that I was going to take her out into the woods near a trail and tie her up naked and blindfolded for anyone who came across her to fondle and fuck her, and she would never know who it was. We did bondage where I would tie her up and run a rope from her neck down through her pussy lips so that when I was face fucking her, the rope would slide up and down against her clit until she came. I think that was her favorite. We also did vegetable fucking, usually a cucumber or a carrot, but anything even remotely phallic was used. I loved to have her tied up and waiting for me as I popped a bottle of champagne, took a swig and then fucked her with the bottle to get her essential essence on the bottle for the extra flavor. Not to mention the tiny bubbles going off in her vagina.
Although she had invited her girlfriend over to help break the news of her affair, she was bi curious at the most. Let me tell you guys, while it is every man's fantasy to have sex with two women, if they are not full on bi, it's a lot of work. They enjoyed kissing and playing with each other's breasts, but wouldn't touch the other's pussy. So here I am like a one legged man in an ass kicking contest, trying to use my mouth, fingers and cock to keep them both sexually pleased. And when I came, they both looked at me like "Why are you stalling?" Because I needed more than thirty seconds to recharge damnit! But within ten minutes, I would be right back to it. And loving every minute of it.
While not very adventurous, Kathy did have a great pussy when she was in the mood, although those were becoming fewer and farther between. I didn't tell Kathy about the sexual escapades of the first wife because I felt guilt that by going so far Karma may have ordained that I would be punished by her death. I know it's not logical, but after the first wife died, I decided that I was going to have a purely monogamous relationship with my wife and never push it too far. The most we did was some fantasy stories of her being anonymously ravaged by an unknown number of good looking men, but it was purely fantasy, and we never had any intention of actually doing it.
I put off her decreasing sexual desire to her entering menopause which is a kind of temporary insanity, if you count about a decade as temporary. Don't get me wrong, I did love Kathy, and making love with her was a sensuous pleasure. Her soft milky breasts with nipples that if I played with them long enough would result in her orgasm were an endless supply of joy. I loved the way her pussy opened up like a coral flower, with a nectar that I enjoyed lapping up. It was amazing how my hand could cup her mound and my finger penetrate to her G Spot like it was custom fit. Her little man in the boat had many a wild ride with my fingers or her vibrator. Pushing my dick all the way in, I could rub the head of my cock on her cervix for extra stimulation. I know some stories talk about fucking into the cervix, but that is just bullshit. The cervix is a hard set of muscles that only relaxes during child birth. You can rub past it, but you aren't going in unless she is giving birth at the same time.