My wife found my chastity cage.
For a long time, I've had a fetish for tease and denial, orgasm control, and male chastity. I've desired to give control of my orgasms and access to my penis over to my beautiful wife. I've often fantasized about my wife taking control of my orgasms where I commit to never masturbate or cum without her permission only to have her deny my sweet release when I'm at that edge and need it the most. To tell her I'm about to cum and to hear her reply, "No babe. Not tonight," as she continues to use my body for her own release turns me on so hard. I fantasize about so turned on and taking her to bed, bending her over intent on really fucking her good, only to have her whisper to me through a soft moan just as I'm sliding it in, "uuhh, I don't want you to cum."
I dream of her taking the key to my chastity cage and leaving my cock locked away for unknown amounts of time. Will she let me out in a day? A month? Will I be allowed to cum when she finally does? Who knows? Of course I'm still expected to bring her to orgasm anytime she wants without the use of my cock and I wonder how long it will be until I'm free?" As long as I keep satisfying her sexual needs in other ways, she may never need to unlock me.
The need. The desire. The loss of control. It turns me on so much thinking about it. I often masturbate to these thoughts. Trust me, the irony or masturbating to fantasies of not being allowed to cum isn't lost on me. I've tried to hold back. I've even tried self-locking. In the end, I can't ever last more than a day or two. I always give in.
I've wanted to tell her, but I'm embarrassed. Would she think I'm weird? Would she understand? Would she be mad? Wha if it stresses her out or she's just annoyed? What if my kinks turn her off?
Or, maybe worse.... What if she says yes? What if she really likes it? Like really really likes it? What if she takes it too far? What if I can't actually handle the torment of denial? What if she doesn't care? What if she really likes my frustration and her newly found sexual control over me? What if seeing me desperate at that peak moment on the edge is what turns her on the most? What if she realizes that she can get more orgasms and more sexual satisfaction the more I'm denied mine?
Like they say, "Be careful what you wish for."
This is the story of how my torment all started.
We're just an average couple in our 40's. Jobs, kids, house, sort of rural, busy lives. The works.β― I work out of town quite a bit for work.β― I'm often gone for up to a week and then home for about the same time.β― So, when I'm home I tend to make myself busy trying to fit 2 weeks of chores, projects, hobbies, social life, and of course time with the kids into my time at home.β― It sometimes seems kind of hectic.
My wife on the other hand has a pretty flexible work schedule so she schedules her work when I'm home and her time off when I'm gone so she can run the house solo.β― After a solo week she takes advantage of me being around so she can do whatever else she wants. Relax, play, work on personal projects, etc. Mainly just take a break from the mental load of all of the day-to-day details.β― I encourage it and it gives me a chance to "be home" and feel useful after being gone. So sometimes our paths don't cross much when I'm home except for when we're both exhausted at night.
This weekend though, the stars have aligned.β― It's Saturday afternoon and we have the house to ourselves.β― The kids are both out of the house at friend's houses.β― Both are planning to have sleep overs tonight. We have lucked out in the "adults" only department. β―A day to get some stuff done around the house without interruptions.β― Lots of time to have sex and fool around in the bedroom or around the whole house even. Hopefully a few times.β― Then, after some chores and sexy time, we can take it easy, have a couple of cocktails and just hang out and talk about everything and nothing.β― In the evening, we can eat an easy dinner and follow it up by binge watching "our" shows late into the night while we casually snuggle, touch and caress each other. If I'm lucky we'll both have enough energy to have some lazy sex before bed.β― And if even more lucky, we'll wake up and take advantage of the empty house again and have some sexy time before the kids get home.
I've been really looking forward to this weekend.β― It has been a busy week, and we haven't had much for sex, let alone just time to hang out. We've had a few quickies for maintenance sex throughout the week, but it has been a few days since the last one.β― If we can take advantage of this time, we can start next week satisfied and recharged.
So now it's Saturday afternoon.β― We've got the house to ourselves and we're just getting started in the bedroom. β―After some initial foreplay we're both warmed up. I end up laying on my back while she straddles my cock. She leans forward putting her hands on my chest and starts riding me. I can usually last longer when she's on top and she can usually cum a couple times before I pop. Her 1st one is usually pretty quick. However, I'm so excited after the last few days I don't think I'll make it very long this time. I'm starting to really get into it.β― My eyes are closed and I'm enjoying the feelings of her gyrating on my cock that is buried deep inside her. I'm extra sensitive today. I'm definitely not going to last much longer.
Then she just stops........
I open my eyes and realize that she's just sitting there, looking at me, with a cute innocent smirk on her face.
"What?" I say.
"I have to ask you something." She says.
"Now?" I asked confused.
"Yes." She says with a little wiggle on my cock.
"Uh, ok.β― What is it?"
"Well.....I found this in our bathroom earlier and I've been wondering what it is?"β― In her hand is my chastity cage. It is a little cheap plastic cage that I found on the internet. She shows it to me moving it around in her fingers.
"Oh no!" I think to myself starting to panic a little inside. "Oh shit!" I play with it when I'm out of town sometimes. I must've left it out when I unpacked all my things. "Shit, how could I have been so careless?" I say in my mind.
"Well," I finally stammer, embarrassed, trying to think of what to say. I can feel my face getting red. "It's a, uh...a....a chastity cage. It goes onto my penis."
"Like jewelry?" She asked with a confused smile.
"Um. No. Not like jewelry. It prevents erections and makes it difficult to cum." I reply.
Her eyebrows furrow a bit as she looks at it again with new awareness. Her expression is actually super cute at the moment I think to myself. "Why would you do that?" She asks.
I just kind of stare at her at a loss for words. Here I am, with this super sexy naked woman, that I love, looking down on me while sitting on my cock. I am rock hard and horny and all I want to do is grab her hips and start thrusting up into her. At the same time, I'm feeling super embarrassed and a little bit of shame at having my secret discovered.
After more than a few seconds I finally decide to just let it all out. I'll tell her everything and see what happens.
"It's a, uh, fun teasing game. The idea is that someone locks it on to someone else's penis. Then they keep and hold onto the key, so they are in control of when the cock gets used. It's like a long teasing game. Foreplay that can last for hours or days."
"And You wear this?" She asks trying to figure this out.