Some have asked if my stories are true. Yes, they are, as best I can remember and write. Others have criticized our choice of lifestyle. To that I can only say, different strokes for different folks. Many want more graphic details of the sex. That's easy for me to share with my husband but hard for me to write here. I will keep trying to be more open. Finally, some think my husband is a wimp. He is anything but a wimp. He just likes to share me. He and I both believe that our marriage bed has benefited from my experiences with other men.
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My husband and I love to talk about some of my most memorable experiences with other men. That is an erotic sharing that we both enjoy as part of our marital lovemaking. Talking about my "dates" and the naughty things I do with other men really starts my husband going and, in turn, fires my passions. Some of my lovers really stands out and my husband and I frequently talk about my experiences with them to spark our own lovemaking.
I found one memorable man through another man I was seeing. Recommendations from current lovers have turned out to be a good way to find acceptable men because a current lover will not intentionally suggest a jerk. Why risk getting me upset?
The man, Rob, lived about 90 minutes drive away. He and I talked on the phone with my husband listening on the extension. We exchanged pictures. Then my husband and I decided that Rob seemed OK. He accepted my insistence on condoms and no bondage or pain. Rob didn't seem to want to try to humiliate my husband, as so many men want to do, and was willing to let my husband watch at some point. I love it when my husband watches, especially when he holds my hand when another man is pumping inside me!
We decided that I would make a date to meet Rob in a chain restaurant in a little town about half way. My husband drove his own car and watched from another table, behind Rob. My husband tells me that this is a very exciting time for him as he watches my reactions and realizes at some point that I will be going off with the man. He believes he can tell before I have made my decision. Truthfully, by the time I get to a meeting with a prospective date, I am so ready for sex that I only reject a man once in a while. Even then, I have sometimes gone back later and had sex with the man I originally rejected. Every time I have done that, it has worked out OK so, ladies, let that guide you if you are uncertain during that first face-to-face meeting. I have this theory that there is mostly good sex, better sex, great sex and fantastic sex, with very little bad sex. So I will try a man once, at least. I have had some very pleasant surprises that way!
I knew quickly that I would like being with Rob. He had large hands and they were soft, not rough like some men. I like soft hands! His face was rugged and he had a genuine smile and long, light brown hair. His nails were clipped short, which I always watch for. Long, ragged nails can hurt. Strange, how little things are so important when you are thinking of heading for bed!
I wanted this man! I sent Rob not-so-subtle hints. As he watched my fingers, I unbuttoned two more buttons on my blouse. I leaned forward and watched his eyes widen. This was fun! Our feet entangled beneath the table. As I finished my second drink, he asked if I wanted another here in the restaurant or if we should have the next drink in a room of the motel across the street. He had already asked me during a phone conversation what I like to drink so he had it ready. I looked over to my husband and touched my ear. That's our signal. He smiled and nodded.
"Let's go to a room," I said with as much lustiness as I could muster. "I think I may want to taste something besides vodka tonics."
Rob motioned for the check and took out some bills. We got up and he put his arm around me to guide me out of the restaurant. A table separated us from my husband who pretended not to notice us pass so close. I always have butterflies as I head for the room with a new man. The experience of being with a man for the first time is so intense, so concentrated. Nothing else is like it and it is something that, for me, can only be approached by two other experiences.
First is the experience of sharing all the naughty details with my husband when I come home from a date. That can be so intense that it sometimes seems that the sex with my date was really just foreplay for the sex that my husband and I share afterwards. He makes gentle oral love to my swollen pussy and asks all sorts of questions. I relive my date for him as he inspects my breasts for bite marks. He licks my body all over, especially in all those right places where I have just been licked. He ends by taking me so hard, so completely, that I think that he is trying to reclaim me as his woman. To be so worshipped by the man I love tells me that I am forgiven for letting another man have me. It tells me that I am wanted as well as loved. It is incredible!
Second is the anticipation, the preparation for a date with a new man. Trimming, shaving, plucking, dressing, but mostly thinking about the hours of physical pleasure that await me: that is so intense and consuming. It is intoxicating! I try to always have a whole week to build up to my first time with a new man. I get more and more excited as the time gets closer. My husband is also on that same razor's edge of excitement and anticipation. It builds almost like my own orgasm, slowly at first, then mounting with a pulse all its own. It makes the actual experience of that first penetration, that first mouthful of the man's sweet load, the first touch of his tongue upon my breasts or pussy lips, so intense that I often cum right then with a crushing orgasm that takes all my strength away.
If a woman never has the experience of being with a new man, especially when she can return to her husband for the sweetest lovemaking of all, then she will never know herself completely. That satisfaction of womanhood that comes with a new lover and the return to the man you love is not approached by anything else I know.