Sometimes, I wonder how common Black kinky folks are. Perhaps my husband Samuel Zenith and I are unicorns. My name is Whitney Felicien-Zenith, and I’m a tall, curvaceous young woman descent living in the City of Ottawa, Ontario. Five-foot-eleven, caramel-hued, with light gray eyes and a voluptuous body that is simply to die for. I live in the suburb of Kanata, and I lead a life like no other, folks. Housewife and college student by day, dominant mistress by night.
The world of BDSM is a really exciting one, and the only thing it needs is more Black folks. Well, perhaps I should clarify that statement. BDSM needs more Black women and Black men who play with each other, instead of chasing White folks left and right. White men and White women in BDSM often play with Black folks and other minorities, but they never deny themselves access to the sexual favors offered by their fellow Whites.
Only Black women and Black men are dumb enough to make themselves available to kinky White folks, while denying themselves access to kinky Black folks. The one group they should cherish and support. Don’t they realize how much racism we all still face? The more diverse the world becomes, the more complex relations between different races and ethnic groups tend to get.
If you look at escort ads on the web, you’ll notice that lots of White female prostitutes, and even some Black hookers, don’t want to deal with Black men. Yet I’ve never seen a sexual ad that spoke out against White male clients. I bet you dollars to pesos that if there’s a man out there who’s killing sex workers, in all likelihood he’s a White male with issues towards women. Yet so many women of all colors are convinced it’s Black men who are the sexual predators. They should take a look at the list of White male serial killers. Might enlighten their racist brains.
Black folks need to realize that White gals and White guys got no love for us and we need to love ourselves and take back our sexuality. We need to stop fearing our bodies. Why are Black men and Black women so sexually conservative? Why is Black male bisexuality such a big problem for Black women? Why is Black lesbianism a real big problem for Black men? Live and let live, I say. Sex is sex. Enjoy it. Do your thing. Let others do their thing. That’s my mantra when it comes to sexual matters, ladies and gentlemen of the readership.
Before we go any further, ladies and gentlemen, here’s a little about me. I was born in the City of Montreal, Quebec, to a Haitian immigrant father and a White Canadian mother. My parents, Louisa Tremblay and Jefferson Felicien met while studying at the University of Montreal, got hitched and had little old me. My parents are hard-working Catholic folks, and raised me to be just like them. Little did anyone know that I would become one hell of a wicked lady, destined to push boundaries.
I left Quebec and moved to Ontario a few years ago. I have always been much more at home among English Canadians than the French. An odd thing for a Montreal native to say, but whatever. The clashes between French Canadians and minorities in the City of Montreal bug the hell out of me. I am the daughter of a foreign-born Black man who married a White Canadian woman. Believe me when I tell you that I know a thing or two about racism in la belle province.
