So hubby and I have been adventuring into the world of gentle femdom for a few years now and are always experimenting and trying new things to take our adventures to new heights. For context, we aren't in a Female Led Relationship and aren't into any of the more hardcore femdom activities like humiliation or degradation. Instead, we use gentle femdom to explore my hubby's more submissive side with some fun games and activities that just stay in the bedroom between us.
One of the things we've both really enjoyed deeply is teasing hubby with lots of edging and ruined orgasms. These drive him absolutely nuts and keeps him so horny ALL the time. I just love how these help turn him into such a desperate and eager to please good boy. These sessions are especially exciting after keeping hubby locked up in chastity for a little while (we don't usually go more than a week though as we live a pretty vanilla life outside of our occasional bedroom activities).
A little while back, I had hubby blindfolded and tied to the bed for one of our lengthy teasing and edging sessions and when I finally pushed him over the edge and ruined his orgasm, I noticed that he didn't even realize that he came. Turns out that I've gotten so good at reading his body and knowing exactly where that point of no return is that it's become incredibly difficult for hubby to tell the difference between an edge and a ruined orgasm. He just lay there thinking he shot blanks with an edge when in actuality his cock slowly drooled a cute little puddle of cum.
That gave me a great idea for an amazing game that we started to play since. The game is simple, we first blindfold and tie him down to the bed and begin a very lengthy tease session. Once the session intensity starts picking up, I start to bring him closer and closer to the edge stroking him gently and slowly as he's squirming trying to get some leverage to fuck my hand. Eventually, I take it up further and begin edging him; this is when he is to guess which it was, EDGE or RUINED. If he guesses right we either continue or reward him, if he's wrong...he gets punished!
Below is a breakdown of reality vs guesses and what the result is:
