I wanted to share a true story about my first ever true femdom encounter.
A little backstory, at the time I was in college probably around 20 years old give or take.
To paint the picture, I was fit, about 6'1 170lbs. I'd always wear my hair short with a little fauhawk kinda thing (was cool at the time lol). Usually had a very short, well-manicured beard. I wouldn't say I was a ladies man, but wasn't afraid of girls either.
I was lucky enough to have a girlfriend near the end of high school who introduced me to foot fetish play. She loved her feet massaged, licked, sucked and played with during sex. She gave me footjobs and constantly inserted her beautiful toes into our love life.
We went to different schools, and eventually lost the connection. However, I really grew a real fetish to feet. It was living the standard college life, but had a tough time weaving my foot fetish into my regular encounters. I wasn't necessarily ashamed, but know it is a bit of a taboo.
Anyways, I started posting on craigslist some times looking for women to let me worship their feet. As crazy as it sounds, it actually worked from time to time. For the next couple of years, I would get lucky and find someone to let me play with their feet 2-3 times a year. There were times it was awesome, others a little disappointing.
Soon enough, my porn preferences started to primarily feature feet. This introduced me to the world of domination, from there my curiosity continued to grow.
It wasn't just the foot fetish stuff anymore that I would watch. It would be pegging, cum eating (I am sorta bi), spanking and general female domination scenes. This is what I needed to experience next.
I researched and was able to find professionals willing to meet, but I never felt comfortable. 1. I was a poor college kid. 2. It seemed possible illegal lol
So I went back to craigslist. I would post various things looking for dominant women who wanted to meet up. I'd talk about my interests, post a few pics of my body and hope for the best. For a while, nothing would really materialize. Then I finally got a message from Ms. Sheila.
Hi Sweetie,
My name is Ms. Sheila. I have been in the lifestyle for about 20 years and love introducing boys to the fun!
I am in my late 40s, not sure if you have much experience with older women. I am 5'4 115 lbs and have the cutest size 6 feet. I'd love to explore your desires and see if we are a good match.
I attached a few pics. If you are interested I want you to send me three pictures. 1. A basic headshot 2. A full body pic of you fully clothed 3. A pick of you on your knees completely nude.
Kisses!
I raced to check out her pictures. The first was a close up of her sexy toes. She had beautifully arched feet with dark red polish. They looked ultra soft and were perfectly shaped. The second was her in a one-piece leather outfit. There was a zipper near her breasts slightly down showing off some cleavage. The pants were long and led down to her beautiful feel in black pumps, with a man on his hands and knees planting a kiss upon her feet. She had auburn hair and a beautiful figure.
This was exactly what I had been looking for so long.
I worked to take the pictures she asked for so I could reply ASAP.
Hi Ms. Sheila!
Thanks so much for your message. Your pictures are breathtaking. I would love to connect and worship those beautiful feet. I hope the pictures I sent were what you looking for.
When would you be free to meet? I am pretty flexible outside of my school schedule, and I am willing to accommodate for you.
Thanks again for your time,
Steve
To say I updated my email to see if responded every minute was an understatement. After the longest 45 minutes of my life Ms. Sheila replied.
Nice to meet you Steve. Slow down, let's get to know each other first.
This is my phone number XXX-XXX-XXXX. Give me a ring sometimes hun!
Moment of truth. I was just as excited as I was nervous. I sat on my bed reading her messages and looking at her pictures time and time again, workshopping exactly what I was going to say and storyboarding the conversation. I wanted to make sure she didn't think I was a spaz lol. After about 45 minutes of overthinking, I was going to do it. I called.
Ring...ring...ring...ring... voicemail.
I was proud of myself, I left a normal voicemail just stating that it was me who was calling and look forward to chatting in the future!
For the next hour, I did school work in my room and waited. Until finally, my phone lights up and it is Ms. Sheila.
My heart started pumping like crazy as I answered.
"Hi Ms. Sheila, how are you today?"
"I'm doing great hun, how about yourself?" said Ms. Sheila.
Up until this point, I am not sure I knew this was real lol. So I did the least smooth thing and just starting said everything at once.
Hey, Ms. Sheila. I'm good how are you? Sorry, I already asked that," I frantically spoke. "Thanks so much for giving me a call. I am just a little nervous. Your pictures were so beautiful, I was so excited when you messaged me. I'd love to set up a time to serve you, are you exactly what......"
Thankfully, she cut me off.
"Shhh, shh calm down sweatheart," said Ms. Sheila. "Take a breath. Tell me a bit about yourself. What is your major?"
We went on to talk for maybe 45 minutes. The vast majority of the time was about life. I talked to her about my school, life, etc.
I remember thinking during the conversation how porn makes this look so different. You expect the dominant woman to be rude, demanding, demeaning and there to make you feel small. This conversation with Ms. Sheila was nothing like that. She was sweet, she was inquisitive and she was caring.
That said, she steered the conversation. She had a way about being in control without being forceful or rude. She would politely cut me off when needed, and redirect the conversation.
Ms Sheila told me a lot about herself. She mentioned how she used to be married but her husband died about 10 years ago. They got into the lifestyle together. She talked about her career, where she grew up, normal stuff.
She talked about her style as a domme being more of the stern, sensual type. She demands respect and takes control, but doesn't need to be harsh (as long as I obey). She talked about how porn gets the domme/sub relationship twisted sometimes.
I talked about some of my kinks and things I would like to try. Foot worship, pegging, cei, some spanking, domination, etc. Ultimately I want to learn
The conversation felt so comfortable. As we got to the end, we started coordinating times/dates we could play. We agreed that I was going to come to her place tomorrow at 11am. She asked when the last time I jerked off, and I told her it had been two days.