Adam was cute from the minute I laid eyes on him at a friends party. Skinny and bearded he was a plaid wearing hipster kid holding his beer and listening to friends tell ridiculous stories about art school. He kept a smile on his face, and whenever there was a pause to drink, his eyes scanned the room, sometimes making contact with mine.
Eventually that evening, we managed to pull a corner of the couch into our shared little world of comics and board games, and I wasn't really sure where the talking and flirting began and end between us. We had traded numbers, and gone back to mingling with the general population for awhile, and then things wound down and people started to peel out. I had just said goodbye to a friend when I glanced over and saw Adam reaching up to grab a door jamb, and stretch himself out. His shirt had ridden up and I spied a glance at his tiny furry little belly, and basic fruit of the looms underwear band, and I felt the tiniest tinge of desire. When he started to leave, I quietly walked up and asked him if he could walk me home.
About ten minutes into our walk, as our conversation grew deeper and quieter, he stopped and laughingly said, "Holy shit, I totally forgot to ask you where you live!" I looked up into his big brown eyes and told him "Actually, I live about a half hour THAT way," pointing in the opposite direction to where we were headed, smiling sheepishly at him. "But I thought maybe I could stay the night at your place,"
A grin took over his face, before he took my hand and leaned down to kiss me. We stood there on the sidewalk making out forever, before he put his arm around my shoulder and led me back to his place.
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That first night we had sex was just fun. There was no pressure or expectation. It was a lot of kissing and making out and cuddling, amongst idle chit chat, and the casual shedding of clothes. By the time we were naked, it was like we had known each other for years, and had magically arrived at this point in our relationship where we were to take the next step. Everything was gentle and considerate, and it felt great. Thankfully, being a Friday night, we ended up in and out of sleep, stepping out to go pee or get a drink or food, but we spent almost 12hrs in bed with each other, fucking missionary, him eating me out, me sucking his dick, on top, 69'ing. It was one of the best sexual experiences I had with anyone in my young life so far.
Over time, our relationship grew stronger, and we became a couple. Now we had our ups and downs like anybody else, some harsh words and strong emotions, natural jealousies and desires took hold. We weren't always in step with one another, but ultimately, we grew to be best friends. It may be sappy, but most of our fights ended with his face to face in bed, reminding one another "Whatever mistakes I make, I want to make them with you. Whatever happens afterwards, we can figure it out together."
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Our sex life as it turned out, was quite varied - one of the other things we had shared was a mutual curiosity in a great number of kinks. It started out with your typical pair of handcuffs, him dominating me, then me dominating him. It grew to fun with rope, and spanking, role playing, latex. We would find an interesting local kink event every month and play tourist, hoping to bring something new back to the bedroom to experiment with.
One time we went to a BDSM night and I wore a sexy black number with tiny skirt and bustier, dark knee high stockings and boots. It was fun to see everyone at the event in all sorts of dress, and a turn on watching the demonstrations on the whipping bench. Adam and I had even started playing a cat and mouse game with a blonde deviant on the other side of the room. I'd coquettishly wink at her, and she'd flash me her tits. Adam would hug me from behind talking dirty, and nibbling at my ear in encouragement. After bringing me back a drink, he whispered in my ear that he had ran into our "fangirl" at the bar, and was given some explicit instructions. I cooed back at him and said "by all means".
When the blonde took her perch again, gazing across the dance floor, Adam pulled up my skirt, exposing my bare pussy, and slowly began to rub an ice cube over my mound.
It shocked and aroused and embarrassed me, but it was a familiar part of our game, the raising of the stakes. Normally though this type of oneupmanship was relegated to the privacy of our apartment mind you. Part of me wanted to shut the whole thing down, but the other wanted to be watched, to be seen by everyone at the event, getting turned on by my man for the benefit of another girl.