The weird things that some of my boyfriends ask me to do to them never cease to amaze me. Seriously. The name is Mika Adewale. A six-foot-tall, athletic and muscular, short-haired and dark-skinned Nigerian woman living in the city of Ottawa, Province of Ontario. I have a thing for sexually submissive Black men. And I don't really hide it. It's put me at odds with some of my friends and colleagues at the University of Ottawa, where I teach business administration but I don't care. Not really. I just live my life the way I want it. Oh by the way, I am also a whip-smart African Dominatrix.
Don't believe me? Who says all the professional female dominants out there have to be White? I'm a strong Black woman and women don't get any bossier than my sisters and I. Seriously. Black women are naturally bossier than other women. Just ask a Black male sometime. They'll you this hidden truth. One of the best kept secrets of the international Black community. I see a lot of skinny blondes in the world of BDSM and online erotica along with professional female domination. Personally, I think most of these silly White sluts couldn't dominate a housecat. Just wearing a black leather outfit and carrying a whip or a strap-on dildo doesn't make you a dominatrix. A truly dominant woman is dominant mentally, first and foremost.
If you're not mentally dominant, the potential submissive that you meet will sense this. And he or she will turn away from you. I've always been a dominant person. It's simply my personality. I was born under the sign of the Scorpio. That probably has a lot to do with it, I guess. Growing up in the Republic of Nigeria, I had to be tough. It's a bastion of male domination, in case you were wondering. A woman really has to stand up for herself down there otherwise she's nothing. When I moved to North America, I fulfilled my true potential. I earned my MBA from the University of Toronto. And nowadays, I teach business at the University of Ottawa. I am openly bisexual and date women and men of all races. By far I prefer Black men. I like the way they smell and taste, I guess you could say. I also like to dominate them.