Dalia and I had been dating for two months when a conversation took an unexpected turn. We were sitting on my sofa, watching a female grappling match on streaming TV when she said, "Why doesn't she punch?"
"They're not allowed to punch," I replied, though I suspected she knew that.
"Well, I'm allowed to punch," she said, balling a fist and pressing it gently against my upper arm.
"No, you're not," I said mirthfully.
"I'm going to punch you hard," she said, still pressing her fist, but without a punch.
"You do that, and I'll spank you," I said, feeling cheerful about mentioning a possibility we'd never discussed, but in which I had a definite interest.
Dalia just giggled and withdrew her fist. We turned back to watching the grappling without further discussion, though my thoughts lingered on the brief exchange. Dalia's 5'6" to my 5'10" and at least 50 pounds lighter, so I was confident that if it ever came to any grappling between me and her, she'd soon be in a submissive and embarrassing position: over my lap, the 26-year-old brunette bested and now treated like a wayward brat. It was an enticing fantasy.
A week later, we were cooking together at her apartment, me following her lead as her culinary skills far exceed mine. At one point I messed up mixing a sauce, and she grabbed a wooden spoon and patted my butt with it. "See, you're the one who gets spanked around here," she said.
I started reaching to get the spoon away from her, and she pulled away, laughing. "I'll deal with you after dinner," I said, to which she laughed some more.
A little later, as we started to eat, she raised her wine glass, and I clinked it with mine. "To you having the balls to do what you say," she said, before sipping her wine.
"What?" I said, startled by the strange toast. I sipped my wine and waited for her to say something.
"How do you like the ravioli?" she asked casually.
There was no further discussion of spanking that night. We had sex, which was fine but not particularly remarkable. Dalia had always seemed a bit quiet and inhibited in bed. I'd once asked her what her fantasies were, and she'd said, "We don't talk about that in Wyoming," which is where she's from.
I'd considered saying "We do talk about that in Rhode Island," where we now were, but I'd refrained. Tonight, she seemed to want to talk about something along those lines, but I didn't ask, and as we went to sleep, I suspected that she was a little disappointed.
The next morning, I awakened in her bed. Dalia was already awake, and I saw she had her phone in hand. She turned the screen away before I could see what was on it. I laughed and started reaching for it, and she giggled and cried out, "No!" After a moment, I'd gotten the phone from her hand, but the screensaver was now on.
"Open it," I ordered, holding the phone toward her.