"Hell yes!"
The shout from my 18-year old son shattered the silence of our typically tranquil Tuesday night. He'd been down in his room - pretending to do homework while he Snapped and texted with dozens of his closest friends - while my wife and I watched Jeopardy! in the living room.
Immediately following the outburst, there was a flurry of activity as our pride and joy raced down the hall towards us. Cal was our only child. We planned on having three or four kids, but a rough pregnancy for my wife, Amy, changed our plans. Shortly after Cal was born, I got snipped and we poured all of our time and attention into him.
"Southern sent me an invite!" he yelled.
My wife and I jumped off the couch excitedly. Since he was old enough to play ball, Cal's dream was to suit up for Southern Michigan University of Technology. As a family, we'd spent a lot more time than I care to admit helping him pursue his dream. Maybe, I thought, it was actually worth it.
Once the initial excitement wore off, we started working through the details. SMUT had just hired a new coach and he was trying to hit the ground running. The official visit invite was for the coming weekend - a mere three days away. The itinerary was jam-packed.
- Friday: Family reception at 6 pm. Players return to the hotel with families after.
- Saturday: Campus tour at 9 am. Facility tour at 10:30. Lunch at noon. Breakouts in the afternoon. Players meet with coaches, then meet their student host. Players will go to dinner and spend the night with their host. Parents will attend a session on the University, then meet 1-on-1 with coaches. There is an optional dinner for parents with some of the coaches.
- Sunday: Parents pick player up from host's dorm by noon.
There was some additional information about what to pack, some items of interest about the program and the new coach, and directions on how Cal could confirm his attendance. At the very bottom of the page, there was an asterisk that drew my eye.
"*Inviting you for an official visit does not mean you will receive a scholarship offer. The official visit is a part of our evaluation process to determine your fit within our program. Assume that everything you and your family does throughout the weekend will factor into our decision making."
While this all seemed incredibly positive, I couldn't help but worry. Cal was a great football player. He'd started on his high school's varsity team since his Freshman year, averaging nearly 125 receiving yards and two touchdowns per game last season. Despite his receiving prowess, he was known for being an unselfish player, getting more joy from throwing a great block for his teammate than scoring on his own.
There was a drawback, though. Cal was small. He'd stopped growing in 7th grade when he hit 5'7". Thanks to his work ethic, he was up to 165 pounds of almost pure muscle, but it seemed like whenever someone mentioned his game, every compliment ended with "...for his size."
"That's great, buddy," I said once we'd all had a chance to review the letter. "I can move a few things around at work to go. How about you, honey?" I asked Amy.
"I'll have to talk to my boss tomorrow," she said, "but it should be ok. Have any of the coaches mentioned anything about a scholarship?"
"No," he said, a frown crossing his face. "I've mainly talked to Coach Toro. He said they want to see me in-person and see how the weekend goes first. He knows I have some other offers, but that this is my dream. I need to go tell...everybody!" he laughed, hustling back down to his bedroom.
"Wow," I said, leaning back in my chair. "I can't believe it."
"Do you...do you think they'll offer him?" Amy asked hopefully.
"I sure hope so," I replied. "If they don't, he'll be crushed. He and I have talked about it before. SMUT is too expensive without a scholarship. If they won't give him some money, he's going to have to go somewhere else, no matter how much he loves it."
"Well, we better be on our best behavior, too," she said earnestly. "That letter said that families were being evaluated, too."
"Yeah," I said, slightly concerned. "Did that seem odd to you?"
"Not really," Amy said. "They're trying to make sure that we aren't going to be a problem. We'll have to make sure that we show our excitement without being a pain in the ass."
The next few days were a whirlwind. Amy got her time off and some new outfits for the trip while Cal and I spent time strategizing how to approach the coaches. Our position was clear: while SMUT was his top choice, he was going to have to go somewhere else without financial help.
We made Cal go to school Friday morning, but picked him up at lunchtime. The drive over to SMUT was only going to take a couple of hours, but we wanted to make sure we got there early and had a chance to wander around campus on our own.
The university was situated on a beautiful piece of land. Rolling hills, large leafy trees, and so many barely-dressed coeds that I was afraid Cal was going to get whiplash trying to keep track of them all. "This place is awesome," he whispered to me after one particularly shapely young lady passed by.
The football team staff had thought of everything. Our hotel room had a beautiful bouquet of flowers on the table, a plate of football-themed cookies, and a hand-written note welcoming us to town. There was also an itinerary just for us. Cal's host was the team's backup quarterback and we all would be meeting with Coach Toro, albeit separately.
Slowly, we went about settling in and preparing for the night's reception. Cal and I both opted for dress pants and a SMUT-blue polo shirt. Amy chose a bright, floral sundress which flowed beautifully over her body but couldn't hide her sexy, round ass. Since the weather had just turned warm, her skin was still quite pale and the colorful dress made her look even whiter. She curled her blonde hair so it bounced just above her shoulders as she walked. Choosing comfort over style, she finished her outfit by slipping on a pair of sandals.
A brief elevator ride took us to the main floor and the hotel's banquet room where the reception was taking place. Even though we arrived 10 minutes early, the party was in full swing. My fears were instantly heightened when I laid eyes on the other recruits in the room. The handful of other young men looked like giants. At six-feet tall, I barely reached their shoulders while the 5'7" Cal and my 5'1" wife looked like toddlers next to the other ballplayers.
We mingled with other families until a clinking glass drew all of our attention.
"Welcome, everyone," said a gruff, white-haired man on stage. This was Coach DeMann. I'm sure everyone else in the room had researched him, too. Coach was successful at several stops and was now getting his chance at the big-time at SMUT. He was known for being serious and often grumpy, but a guy who got results.
"We're glad to have so many great players here this weekend," he continued. "This is the start of an exciting chapter in the history of Southern Michigan University of Technology. As I'm sure you know, this school has a great football tradition, but, well, recent results have left a little something to be desired. Our first recruiting class will set the tone. We're going to let the college football world know we mean business!"
DeMann paused as the room filled with applause. He forced a smile, but he was obviously much more comfortable scowling.
"I want to introduce my lead assistant, Coach Edward Toro," he droned. "Eddie, as I'm sure you all know, was the only three-time captain in this program's history despite, as he is quick to remind me, less than ideal athletic abilities. To a man, everyone I asked about Eddie called him a leader and, having been around him for a few weeks now, they were right. Coach Toro, come on up here and say a few words."