"For the longest time I've had a certain disdain for Black Femdom types, but not for the reason you think," Jethro Montclair said with a sigh. The big and tall, dark-skinned Haitian man leaned back on the chair as he unburdened himself. In the psychiatrist office located on Boulevard Bilodeau in downtown Gatineau, Quebec, it was eerily quiet. Dr. Nabila Aden listened attentively to her patient. The Somali-born, McGill University-educated psychiatrist had seen a lot of confused patients but Jethro was in a category by himself.
"Please continue," Dr. Nabila Aden replied as she jotted down some notes on a notepad. Jethro nodded and continued. A newcomer to the Ville De Gatineau, Quebec, by way of Vanier, Ontario, Jethro works for the Department of Public Works at Portage. The well-to-do Black man has certain issues that have proven problematic for his relationships and he needs to get over them. Dr. Nabila Aden specializes in therapy for Black patients. Mental health is a taboo subject in the Black Canadian community, but it needn't be that way.
" Afro Magique, the first Black Femdom I approached flat out told me that she didn't deal with Black male subs, only white men," Jethro said angrily. Dr. Nabila Aden nodded, silently urging Jethro to continue. Jethro pursed his lips, thinking about his days as a newbie in the global BDSM scene. He joined the fetish world in the hopes of finding Black women and Black men to play with. Afro Magique was a Black Femdom whose writing and lifestyle inspired Jethro, until he found out that she only topped white men. That pissed Jethro off, to say the least.
"Jethro, you told me that Afro Magique only topped white men because she considered Black men to be kings," Dr. Nabila Aden interjected, and Jethro frowned. The big and tall Black man quietly fumed upon hearing what the middle-aged Black female psychiatrist had to say. Yeah, Black women like Dr. Nabila Aden simply did not understand. The BDSM world demands that every Black man has to be a BBC thug, genetically engineered to fuck white women in front of cuckolded white men, that or be the queer playthings of gay white males if they happen to be gay Black men or bisexual Black men.
"There should be Black Femdom for Black men, not everything revolves around white dudes, and not every Black man is a super macho BBC thug," Jethro said angrily. Dr. Nabila Aden cocked an eyebrow and looked Jethro up and down. Sighing, Jethro raised his hands in the air. He was frustrated at the sad state of the affairs between Black men and Black women in the world of BDSM, and society in general. Black guys and Black ladies in BDSM exist as the playthings of other races whether they're dominant or submissive, but they don't play with each other. Sad, really...
"Why don't you organize Black Femdom events for Black men since you lament the dearth of it?" Dr. Nabila Aden asked with a coy smile. Jethro stared at the good doctor as though she had just spoken Japanese...or ancient Martian. Jethro has tried to reach out to Black Femdom ladies and Black gentlemen in various BDSM spots, and it was like herding cats. The dominant Black women loathed Black men and loved being exotic pay-for-play types for white men. The Black men avoided Black women and loved being BBC types for white women. Black on Black play in BDSM circles is nonexistent.
"I've tried, alright? Black men and Black women in BDSM are allergic to each other, they play with all races other than their own," Jethro said, sounding frustrated. Dr. Nabila Aden looked at Jethro, who sighed deeply. The big and tall Haitian man looked out the office window. It was a cold morning in early November. Jethro looked around the neighborhood of Bilodeau. There was a Dollarama store, a McDonald's restaurant, the obligatory Jean Coutu Pharmacy, and more. On the streets, ordinary Quebecers of all hues went about their business. Such is the way of things in Ville De Gatineau.
"We must be the change we want to see in the world," Dr. Nabila Aden said gently. Jethro looked out the window, and saw a tall, big booty Black woman walk by with a nerdy white guy. The two of them walked into Jean Coutu Pharmacy. A few minutes later, a tall Black guy walked by with a chubby blonde-haired white woman. They walked into McDonald's restaurant. Yeah, Black folks are allergic to their own. The days of Black love are over. Jethro needs to get with the program.
