I don't know about you but, one of the things that does the most to turn me on is a woman that is casual about her body and her sexuality. One of my favorite movies is The Thomas Crown Affair with Pierce Brosnan and Rene Russo. There are several scenes where Catherine Banning (played by Russo) it's topless. In one of the scenes she is sitting having breakfast topless carrying on a conversation with Thomas Crown (played by Brosnan) with no thought or self consciousness at all. In another scene she is sitting on a beach chair topless and they are discussing their future. In my mind these are two very erotic scenes that make the movie special.
There is another scene where they are having sex all over his apartment with a lot of nudity but the casualness of the two topless scenes are much more erotic to me.
When I read through stories on Literorotica the ones that I enjoy the most are the ones where a teasing wife ends up with some stranger. More so are where the wife is somewhat reluctant or she is just starting out fucking outside the marriage. The most important element to me is the husband's approval and support, even his facilitation.
Scenarios where the wife is braless and/ or in a see through blouse in a bar or lounge bring hit upon by strangers are my top choice. Add to that where the stranger is "feeling her up" right in front of the husband or while dancing in public is ideal. Of course it is preferred for the wife to end up fucking the stranger is the "icing" (pun intended) on the cake.
Any provocative actions in public is a real plus for me. A stranger feeling up the wife in an elevator, a stranger putting his hand up her skirt on a bar stool, groping her boobs on the beach, fucking in a hot tub with hubby and strangers watching and participating, all of these situations are scenes that excite me and are scenarios that I like to envision, for me and my wife. Some of these I've been able to put into action with Amanda and some I'll have to continue to just imagine.
Another extension of my desires, fantasy, goals, involves strip clubs. Wife enters amateur night at strip club, wins, and provides private dances for fans. Usually the private dance ends up to be more than just a lap dance. Also losing wife in a poker game. A common thread here is the wife unwittingly, but willingly, goes from casual observer to active participant and she really lets go and enjoys herself.
Massage is another erotic environment that I like to think about. There are two perspectives on this. 1) wife goes for a massage and get turned on and fucks the masseuse. 2) wife goes to work in a "massage parlor " and fucks the clients.
I guess most of these desires/ fantasies push the boundaries of "acceptable" female behavior and involve the woman going from reluctant, to active participant, to changing her outlook to accommodate her own sexual gratification. Overall a woman so confident in her sexuality, her body, and her desires, that she is willing to push the societal boundaries to enjoy all that sex has to offer is a real turn on.
At one point when Amanda and I had just started going to The Ranch, we were discussing other ways away from The Ranch to enable her to fuck some stranger. She asked me how did I see it evolving? I fell back on many of the stories I had read about a "bar pickup scenario". She'd go to a local bar, there were a couple in the area that seemed to cater to what we were after, and try to get picked up. I'd be there as a safety valve and whether she'd go off alone with the guy or if go with them was left up in the air. The idea was we'd leave it open in case the guy potentially involved had some misgivings about the situation. We didn't want to have so many conditions on the plan that it couldn't happen. I hoped to see the public exposure by Amanda leading to an enjoyable evening for both of us with a minimal level of risk.
Our first shot was a bust (no pun intended). The bar we chose was frequented by a young country and western crowd complete with cowboy boots, hats, and belt buckles. It was also a very young crowd, no one there (except for us) over 30. We stood out like a sore thumb. It was good that we jointly recognized this because if Amanda went in an no one hit on her it would have damaged her confidence. As it was we both agreed to find a more appropriate place for our age, interests, and amenable to our goals.
It turned out our best option was a large hotel in the area with a bar that targeted business travelers. Being a hotel eliminated the issue of "your place or mine" that would have existed in a plain bar.
I checked with the hotel to find a week when there was a large convention in the area. I attempted to get us a room for the night but it was entirely booked. What this really meant to us was, more than likely she'd have to plan on going to the guys room without me. It was possible that he would agree to having me along but we weren't sure if would be a deal breaker. We discussed it at length and decided we'd leave the option open depending on the guy that we encountered.
