I am Jess. As you might know, I am a nudist. I've told you all about my adventures driving nude on I-95 in Florida, streaking the grounds at UVA, & even about dating a Mormon girl.
Now I want to tell you how I went from being a normal-clothed person to being a weekend club nudist. It was step-by-step, each a little more risky and daring skin-wise.
My life changed greatly after my wife left me after 6-years of marriage. I'd met Amanda through a personal ad.
In fact I met and dated 17 women who either responded to my ad or else I responded to their ad. It was great going out with all these ladies.
Amanda was 22 when we went on our first date. I was 34 and neither of us had ever been married. I decided that Amanda was the smartest and best women out of the 17 I'd met and dated through the ads.
Amanda was then in her first year of graduate school. I was then a TV news photographer in Charlotte.
Amanda was kind of fat, but I did not care. Her soft baby skin and great intelligence made up for being heavy. I have always found that bigger girls are wilder in bed anyway. Some will fuck your eyeballs out.
Amanda and I were great together the first few years. The first year was the hardest, you might say. My dick was the hardest, anyway. Then we gradually quit fucking as much, and then she started getting upset at the number of shots she was taking to avoid pregnancy.
Amanda was afraid of getting pregnant for a good reason. Some boyfriend knocked her up right before she left home for grad school. Amanda had an abortion a few months before she met me.
But she did not tell me this until the week of our marriage, 2 years later. On one hand, I was shocked she hid this info, but on the other hand, she came clean, so-to-speak. She told me the truth.
But after going through the abortion, she was determined not to get pregnant again, even if we were happily married.
She did not want kids. I was not sure yet, but leaned against kids, too. In retrospect, having a vasectomy would have probably been fine, although my parents would have raised holy hell if they ever found out. They hated Amanda anyway.
In the back of my mind, I thought about getting it done, but what if I got divorced, then found a hot wife who wanted kids, who I wanted to have kids with.
Better to leave nature alone and my penis alone, right? The vasectomy idea seemed a radical solution to me. Almost like a set-up perhaps. You know, get married, max out the guy's credit cards, demand a vasectomy, and divorce the guy for not getting one. I hope this was not all planned out.
Amanda told me I had to get one. That was all there was to it. I refused to do that, and eventually we quit having sex. Then she left and eventually filed for divorce. After it was granted, I was free to become a nudist.
I was 42 and single again. I decided I wanted to have some fun and try some new stuff.
I saw a news story on television in Charlotte about a S.C. nudist resort preparing to have an open house for new members. This was so perfect. I'd always been sort of fascinated by nudism, but was afraid to take the first step and try it.
I guess a lot of people would love to try it, but don't for one reason or other. If you are like that, get a friend and try nudism at a club together.
I worked up my courage. The nude resort was about an hour south of me in Chesnee, S.C. That is real close to city of Spartanburg, but kind of out in the county. Most nudist resorts down South are out in the country.
The resort drew in people from both Asheville & Charlotte, NC, even folks from Greenville, S.C. and beyond. It is not uncommon for nudists to drive hours to a club if they really like the people there, enjoy the planned nude activities and like the atmosphere of the resort. Best of all, really brave nudists drive to and from the clubs naked in their cars and trucks.
Getting there and back home is half the fun, a tad more than half sometimes.