My wife, Grace and I celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary this year. We've been together for 12 years, we dated for 2 years before we got married. We had what would be considered a "traditional" wedding, but about a year or so after we got married I became a cuckold, and she became my hot wife.
It was something we both wanted, and not only has it continued, but we don't ever want to stop. Neither of us ever want to go back to traditional monogamy. She is my hot-wife, she currently has a boyfriend and multiple fuck-buddies; while I remain 100% loyal to her. If given the choice, I would not change this dynamic for anything. The more my wife sleeps with other men the more I don't want to look at other women. My wife knows this, and takes advantage; regularly spreading her legs for her boyfriend, her fuck buddies, and the odd one-night stand, enjoying herself and also ensuring my continued loyalty to her.
She started dating her boyfriend, Jacob, about 2 years ago. The story of how they got together is for another time, suffice it to say she has had many sexual partners since we've married, but Jacob is her first actual boyfriend. They have a full on relationship, separate from her marriage to me.
Grace and I knew that we wanted to do something special for our 10-year wedding anniversary. Since we got married I became her cuckold, and she became my hot-wife, meaning that much of our "traditional" wedding vows have been broken. We decided to celebrate our anniversary with a renewing of our vows ceremony that would incorporate our new life style, and make new vows to each other that were more in keeping with our actual relationship dynamic! We wanted to make our cuckold / hot-wife dynamic official!
At this point I feel I should mention that Grace is an exhibitionist. Her biggest turn on is to be the only one naked, surrounded by fully dressed men. She enjoys the casual nudity. She enjoys being on display. She enjoys being the enter of attention. We have spent many evening socializing with guys whom she was sleeping with, with her casually naked. This works well for us because I get turned on by other guys seeing my wife naked... I also get turned on by my wife getting laid!
Grace and I are in our late 30's. She is one year younger than me. She is about 5'4, milky white pale skin, about 125lbs, she has a nice hour-glass figure, long curly brown hair, and the most beautiful natural 36-C's you've ever seen... and yeah, you could see them all you want, all you have to do is ask!
When Grace and I started planning our vow-renewal ceremony, we went through some specific things we wanted to happen. Aside from reading our new cuck-hotwife vows to each other out loud in front of all the guests, the first thing Grace said she wanted was to be naked... To be the only one naked... She was adamant about this.
I knew that I did not want to be the first man to have sex with Grace after the ceremony. I didn't care who the first man was, as long as it wasn't me. I was adamant about this.
We also knew that we wanted the efficient to ask us both "do you promise to be loyal to the other, forsaking all others?" so that I can answer "yes" and she can answer "no."
We assumed that finding an efficient for such a ceremony would be difficult. It certainly couldn't be a traditional christian church. We would have to find a secular efficient who could legally perform the ceremony, and who would be open-minded enough to be willing to perform our specific... lets say... "unusual" ceremony.
We did a little digging on line, and actually found someone pretty easily. His name was James, though he was a registered minister with an online church, granting him legal authority to perform the ceremony, he was not a religious man. He was willing to perform any type of ceremony the happy couple wanted. He even had a private event hall where he could host us! PERFECT!
Grace and I met with James to discuss the ceremony we wanted. We enthusiastically explained everything to him. Not only did he happily agree to be our efficient, upon hearing that Grace wanted to be naked, and I wanted to not be the first man to fuck her after the wedding, James actually offered to take 40% off his rate he could be the first man to fuck Grace after the wedding.
"Feel free to say no," James said to me, as Grace and I sat in his office, "If I'm over stepping my bounds please tell me, but since it's at the top of your wish list, I would honored to be the first man to sleep with her after the ceremony. In fact, I'd even be willing willing to knock 40 percent off my rate for it."
I watched, with a huge smile on my face, as Grace blushed and gave a coy little smile. I know my wife, she was flattered, and into it.
"WOW! really? 40 percent off?" She said through her flirty smile.
"Absolutely!" James replied, "It would be my pleasure!"
"What do you think, sweetheart?" I asked her, even though I already knew exactly what she thought.
"I think we have our efficient!" she replied, as the energy in the room suddenly shifted to a more fun and flirty vibe.
Over the next couple weeks James was a huge help in organizing our ceremony. We met with him several more times to plan out what else we wanted to happen. When we had it all worked out I put down a deposit and we set a date! It was officially happening!
We set the date for the actual day of our anniversary, which was 2 months out. Since it was a renewing of the vows instead of an actual ceremony, and since James was graciously taking care of the lion's share of the planning by hosting in his venue, we felt confident that 2 months was plenty of time.
Grace and I each set out to write our vows, select our groom's men and bride's maids, and put together a guest list. I asked an old friend of mine, Matthew, to be my best man. I've known Matthew since high school, and he was one of the first guys Grace slept with when we started cuckolding all those years ago.
Grace asked her best friend, Courtney, to be her maid of honor. Grace and Courtney are very close, and although Courtney and her girlfriend are monogamous, she knows all about Grace's hotwif'ing, and fully supports it. They get together for drinks regularly and share all kinds of details with each other. Grace says she loves having another woman she can talk to about all this.
Our guest list would be relatively small. It's a renewal after all! We only invited about 20 people. 8 of whom were guys Grace has slept with in recent years, the rest were friends from various circles, who did not know about our life style. This would be our making it public, and official that my wife sleeps with other men while I remain loyal to her! This would be our big "coming out" celebration, so to speak. From the day of our ceremony on, basically every one of our friends would know!...We wanted them to know! We didn't want to keep it secret anymore!...besides, maybe it could mean that some, or all of our friends could... ya know... have sex with my wife!
As the following 2 months past we were in regular contact with James, while he organized the event. He was an absolute pleasure to work with. He was always very respectful to me, and to our marriage, but was also pretty flirty with Grace... Which, of course neither of us minded one bit. It started out small, light compliments and flirty smiles, but the more she reciprocated the more overt his flirting got. We all knew this was building up to him being the first man to have sex with her after the ceremony, so we had fun with them getting along so well.
