Monday, May 24, 2010
Although I didn't set the alarm, I woke early. The sunlight had just entered our bedroom.
I lay in bed and thought about the day. The stitches needed to come out, the ring sized, and a suitable "everyday" ring purchased. I also needed to call the hospital in Kansas City to arrange payment on behalf of Jodi's mom, Jackie.
After last night's discussion, I had a much better understanding of Emily. Having the large diamond was validation of my love for her. It made her feel more secure. But, flashing it around would cause others to feel the inferiority she had felt when they did things like that to her. She didn't want to hurt her friends like they had unintentionally hurt her.
After doing my morning duties, I left the sleeping Emily and walked to the house. Mom was there, but Dad had left for the day's work.
"Good morning, Mom."
"Hey sweetheart. Where's Emily?"
"Still sleeping. We were up late again."
"Your dad and I often stay up and talk at night. James said you're going to buy a smaller diamond today because of Emily's friends. Is that right?"
"That's right. Emily told me last night how she felt over the years when all her friends were getting electronics and clothes, but she couldn't afford them. She doesn't want to do the same thing to them."
Mom nodded and paused for a moment. "She's amazingly mature. I've not met another teenager whose ego is under control like that."
"As I'm finding every day, there's a lot more to Emily than meets the eye."
"I imagine there is. Every person shows the world what he or she wants the world to see. There's also the person hiding within us that rarely comes out. Emily is a beautiful person. But, her true beauty can rarely be seen because it's internal. That's why time together is critically important."
"We've been together constantly for almost three weeks, but every day seems to bring new revelations."
"I'm sure she's thinking the same thing. How about some breakfast?"
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Shortly before 8:00, Emily came in. "Good morning!" she said with a big smile.
"Hey lady, you look nice." She had on the white shorts and a dark green silk blouse.
"Thanks. Where's Mom?"
"She's upstairs dressing."
Emily asked, "What's the plan for today?"
I reviewed everything that had come to my mind earlier, and Emily added that she'd like to look for some earrings as a gift for my mom. "She's been a perfect parent to me this past week and I want to show my appreciation with a small gift."
"I'm sure she'd appreciate that."
We were ready to go at 9:00 and I told Mom we'd be back when she saw us. The first stop was to have my stitches removed. There were six people waiting ahead of me so it took an hour to get the five-minute job done. The nurse was pleased with the appearance of the wound and said I could begin washing that area.
The next stop was the jewelry store. When we walked inside, Lisa saw me and came immediately.
"Good morning, Matt."
"Hey Lisa. This is my fiancΓ©e Emily Ryan. Emily, this is Lisa Angelino."
"Good morning, Lisa."
"Very nice to meet you, Emily. The ring Matt purchased is gorgeous, the best one I've ever sold. Did you come to have it sized?"
"Yes, we need to have it done today, if possible," I replied.
"Let's go back and get that going."
While they were away, I looked in the engagement ring display case and studied the options. Steve Mitchell, the manager, walked over.
"Hi Matt. Are you just looking?"
"No, believe it or not, Emily doesn't want to wear the diamond I bought except on special occasions. I'm looking for a smaller one for her to wear the rest of the time."
"That happens occasionally. Some women are very sensitive about wearing a showpiece like the one you bought. What size diamond are you looking for?"
"A one carat H or J set in platinum would be fine."
"A solitaire?"
"Yes, but she'll be here in a moment. I want her to choose it."
"Is she with Lisa in the lab?"
"Yes, getting the other one sized."
"Good. Come to my office when she's ready and I'll have them brought out."
When Emily and Lisa returned, I told her about the new ring we wanted. She showed Emily several rings in the case, but none were what she envisioned. Lisa poured coffee for us before we walked to Steve's office.
The diamonds were on his desk and, after introductions, he began showing the best ones first. Emily picked one priced at $6300... a round H, SI1 which was very pretty, just not in the ballpark with the big one. Emily was happy when we made the deal with a 8% discount. Steve said it'd take two hours to do the setting and sizing of the two rings.
Emily said, "Lisa. I'd like to buy a pair of earrings for someone. Could you show me what you have?"
"I can."
"Sweetheart, I'm going to make a phone call. I'll be back in a few minutes." She smiled, knowing I was planning to call the hospital.
I found the phone number using my Yellow Pages app. My call was eventually connected to the accounting department.
"Good morning. My name is Matt Anderson. A friend of mine is entering your hospital today, and I'd like to make arrangements to pay any charges that'd normally be the patient's portion after the insurance settlement."
"Mr. Anderson, we won't know that amount until the treatment is completed and the insurance settles with the hospital."
"I understand. I'd like to give you my phone number and have you put a note in her file saying all patient payment responsibility is to be mine. She has a high deductible policy, and I understand she's responsible for the first $2,500. I want to make sure I'm invoiced for that amount, not her."
"I've never done this. Let me ask my supervisor. Can you hold for a moment?"
I listened to soothing music obviously designed to calm enraged patients discussing their outrageous hospital bills.
In a minute or so, she returned. "Mr. Anderson, sorry to keep you waiting. What we can do is exactly what you suggested. We'll add a note to the insurance information to say that you intend to pay the patient's portion of any charges. The doctors who'll be doing a separate billing and insurance settlement for the services they provide will see that note and should contact you, like we'll do. Who's the patient?"
"Mrs. Jackie Davis."
There was a moment of silence. "I see that she checked in this morning and we have the insurance information. Can you give me your phone number?"