We are both competitive. I hate to lose and so does he. Our first date in college was a race around the track. He won. I didn't speak to him for a month.
Because I hate to lose.
Yet, somehow after that first date I let him take me out again and we never stopped going out. Maybe it's because he completes me, like in some sappy romantic novel kind of way, or because I just like the high I get from beating him at something. I'd like to think it was the romantic stuff but I wouldn't bet on it.
So somehow our sex life devolved into a somewhat healthy competition. First off, our 'normal' sex life is actually quite sweet and romantic - the soft kissing, warm embracing, back rubbing, blah blah blah that leads to the dick grabbing and pussy licking that migrates to two (or more) happy orgasms.
The competition aspect is a different animal altogether.
He blames me for starting it on a warm spring morning. He's a morning person and I'm a night owl. Whenever we are amorous before noon it's a treat - I'm a lady, so I get to decide when & where. But every now & again I get the urge to give a little thrill at sunrise.
One morning I woke up from a deep sleep and could feel that he was still naked from the waist down under the covers. The night before was all about my crotch in his face, so I figured I'd simply reciprocate his thoughtfulness. Half-conscious I slid below the covers and placed his limp dick sweetly between my lips.
By the third suck his dick was clearly paying attention to my advances, but the rest of his body wasn't cooperating with our positioning.
Without breaking stride, I continued to stroke and suck while I lifted the sheets slightly (too much sunshine and my mood would have been thrown) to find his phone was in has hand and his earpiece was in. I'd forgotten about his conference call with Switzerland.
But he didn't stop me, so I was determined to drain his seed. It was taking longer than usual without his full attention, but I kept at it until, finally, my face was drenched with my well-earned prize.
However, the victory didn't appear to be mine. While I lay soaked in his cum, he discussed engineering plans and government calendars for another 20 minutes. It was as if he could handle my best effort and still get his work done.
He was the winner. Not me.
The next battle was about a week later. My sister called after he'd gone to sleep and my talking kept him stirring. I offered to take the call into the living room, but he gestured that it was fine and put his head under a pillow.
But after 10 minutes of rustling, he decided the best way to finish my conversation with my sister was to start a conversation in my panties.
Knowing we could easily talk for another hour, he took his sweet time - caressing my back and kissing my neck, before working his way down my stomach onto my thighs. But I never slipped in my conversation with my sister - even when she was complaining about her afternoon commute and he was tongue twisting my nipples.