It all started three years ago, Samantha and I worked together. It had been just six months since I transferred to her department. One day she needed help with some data entry to our system and all my colleagues were out on vacation, when we first spoke nothing really seemed out of the ordinary I just did whatever she needed and moved on, but for some reason I became extremely attracted to her.
I have never really been interested in heavier girls but there was something about her that was just seductive. My morning routine was to walk across the street for a cup of coffee for the last 3 years and it hadn't changed ever since. At some point I started noticing her on the same coffee schedule that I had, so I decided to send her an IM.
We started to talk and talk more as the months went on, we discovered we shared a lot in common in a very short period of time, one day suddenly she said "I'm going with my friend to get some dinner, would you like join us?" to which I declined, it wasn't because of lack of interest, it was just inconvenient since my wife used to drop me off and pick me up after work.
The next morning she started talking as she normally did every morning, she mentioned it was a good dinner last night, "such a shame you couldn't join us; we could have used some eye candy through dinner." I never really considered myself as eye candy but I just replied maybe some other time and maybe without your friend and her response was: "count me in"
Later that spring, she had arranged for a vacation with her husband and daughter, so she took off for about 2 weeks, while away she kept messaging me and sending emails. We kept talking and our conversations got a little flirty through time. I am not sure why but after every work day I kept thinking about her more and more. After she came back from her trip we kept talking more and more up to the point where our conversations got more and more personal, I don't exactly know when or how but we started talking about our current spouses and the conversations turned into a different direction.
To give some background I'll explain my situation at the time. I had been married for almost 6 years and she had been married before but her previous husband is an alcoholic and had 3 children with him. Before we moved in together I remember asking her "are you sure your kids are going to be OK with this?" to which she responded yes they should.
After 6 years of marriage I have to admit that I could not stand her kids, they were disrespectful to me even though I tried to get along with them it was virtually impossible to establish a relationship with them. Eventually my wife and I distanced from each other and we hardly ever talked, or did anything together, I couldn't even remember the last time we had sex that wasn't like an obligation.