I call him a germaphobe, but that isn't exactly accurate. It's more complicated than that, just like everything else in life. I didn't actually find out the truth until a few months after we'd met, when I was head-over-heels in love with what I thought was the perfect man.
He seemed to be everything a girl could want in a man; educated, intelligent, striking if not good looking, well on his way to a successful career, and most importantly obsessed with me. There were a few small red flags, but I was blind to everything but the good in him.
He kissed me to within an inch of my life a few times a day, even if he had to drive across town to do it. So what if he never actually touched me. I could do without the public displays of affection and hand holding as long as he kept looking at me with a passion that threatened to light me on fire. No, I hadn't met his family, but we were new still, there was time. I was convinced he was just taking things slow.
A few weeks before Christmas, and we were at a party. He was attentive but distracted the entire night and towards the end, we were standing off to the side when he suddenly tensed and excused himself. At the time I'd barely cared, I figured it was a work thing and took this as my opportunity to escape to the lady's room to freshen up.
On my way back to the party, I found a familiar looking man waiting for me in the hall. He had Lucas' grey eyes, and his smile would have been the same too had it not been for his perfectly flawless teeth. Whoever he was, he even had the same habit of holding up the wall with one shoulder, hands deep in his pockets, one foot crossed over the other. It was uncanny.
"Hello Addie," he said with the warm enthusiasm you reserve for old friends. "It's great to finally meet you, I've heard so much about you." Pushing up off the wall he stepped forward and held out a large, inviting hand.
"I'm sorry, I don't believe we've met," I said cautiously trying to hold back my discomfort. With a hesitant smile, I took the offered hand, it was warm and firm, but in the same way a great hug can be.
"Not for a lack of trying on my part," he said with a laugh. "I'm Mark Friesen, Lucas' brother."
"It's so nice to meet you," I replied. Instantly, I felt at ease and when he let go of my hand, I didn't immediately rush to step back and put distance between us. We talked for a few minutes about the party, my plans for Christmas, basically everything and nothing. I don't know how long we were there, but things quickly went from fine to terrible the second Lucas rounded the corner and found us together.
"What the fuck are you doing Mark?" Lucas kept his voice low, but there was a level of animosity in him I wasn't prepared for.
Mark didn't even seem phased by it, and with his smile still intact, turned to greet his brother. "You missed your appointment today Lucas," he scolded gently, "we've talked about that."
Lucas closed the distance between us in a few long strides, using his body to force me to move back from his brother. "And now you're sabotaging me?" He snapped. Glancing down I watched his fists clench and unclench, wondering at just what could possibly cause this kind of tension between them.
"We've talked about this too lucas," Mark replied in an even, calm tone. "The only one sabotaging things is you. If you're not honest with her, this will never work, and I know how much you want this to work."
I took in everything from the compassion on his brother's face, to the raging anger painted across every in of Lucas' tense body. My stomach dropped into my shoes and I struggled to keep my breathing calm. "What's going on?" I asked quietly.
Lucas took a step back, forcing me to do the same. "We need to go," he said over his shoulder to me. "I should never have brought you here."
My discomfort was growing with every moment, and when he tried to direct me to the door I stepped away from him, causing a flash of panic to cross his face. "What have you lied to me about?" My voice was barely above a whisper but I knew he heard me when he all but shouted his reply.
"I haven't lied about anything." By this point in our relationship, Lucas knew about my trust issues. He'd already pulled from me the details of my failed relationships and knew how much I struggled to let him in. The same panic I was feeling was echoed in his eyes, he thought this was going to be the end and that scared the hell out of me.
"A lie of omission is still a lie Lucas," Mark said with kindness. "It's not too late to be open, it's not too late to be honest and build from there."
"Shut the fuck up Mark," he bit back. For the briefest of minutes Lucas closed his eyes and took a deep breath. My flight reflex kicked in right about then and when I tried to move away from him, with wild eyes Lucas turned on me and then he blew my mind and reached for me.
His hands physically shook as his hands settled on my shoulders in an unforgiving grip to hold me in place. Over his shoulder I caught the look of gleeful surprise on Mark's face when he'd reached for me, but my focus was on the man anchoring me in place.
"Don't," Lucas whispered fiercely, "Don't go. I'll tell you everything you just have to promise not to leave."
It was so out of character back then, for Lucas show anything other than complete control over every situation we came across. I was used to his unflappable calm, and the decisiveness that implied he had all the information he needed, and every confidence in his decision. He was the polar opposite to my anxiety and insecurity, but now, like this, he seemed even more fragile than I felt on any given day.
Deep down, I was expecting the worst. That he had a wife, or a lover, a child maybe. Was he a criminal? Whatever it was my fear had kicked into overdrive, and I shook my head trying to move away despite the tightening of his grip. "I can't promise that," I whispered in reply, "I don't know what you're going to say."
"Trust Lucas," Mark said softly, "trust in her and in yourself. Trust that your connection can survive this." I watched Lucas' lip curl in disgust when his brother spoke, but when he looked at me all I could see was fear and panic mixing with a wildness I didn't understand.
"It can't be that bad, can it?" I asked softly. Mark shot me an encouraging smile and I frowned, I hated having an audience, as I knew Lucas did. But leaving me at the mercy of my overactive imagination would do none of us any good. "Are you secretly married?" I continued with what I hope sounded like teasing, "attracted to men?"
Both brothers gave the same short burst of laughter and I gave Lucas a worried smile that faded a second later. Letting go with one hand Lucas moved to rake his hand through his hair, a habit of his that was as familiar to me as my own self-soothing motions.
Only he didn't actually do it. As the hand came up to his face I watched his eyes drop down in horror at it and he visibly flinched, choosing instead to hold his hand out to the side like now it was too dirty to touch.
Was he going to react with disgust every time he touched me? His eyes flipped up to mine and Lucas watched the reality of our situation dawn on me. This is why he didn't want to touch me.
