Hallo everybody! My name is Amy, and I thought it would be kind of fun to tell you about the first time my boyfriend and I used a blindfold during sex. Let me tell you... it was an experience like no other. You'd think that by removing one sense, the others are heightened. Well, that is true to some extent but it is much more than that. If you're not able to see, you also can't really "brace" yourself. It is difficult to put into words and explain, but those that have tried it will know exactly what I mean. It makes you feel way more vulnerable. It's perhaps a bit uncomfortable in the beginning but if you surrender to that feeling, trust your partner completely and truly give yourself over, there are just not many sensations that can match that...
The evening began as many others, with my boyfriend and I snuggling on the couch watching TV. I was leaning with my back against him, my head on his chest, and his left arm was wrapped around me with his hand resting on my stomach. Nothing out of the ordinary, until I felt his hand slowly creep upwards to my chest.
I gasped and giggled, "Someone seems to be in the mood..."
I turned towards him, and he just smiled. He moved forwards, his body towering over me, making me lay on the couch on my back. Next, he lowered his body on top of mine and moved one hand in my hair and the other on my side. It was so uncharacteristically bold of him but I loved it. I tried to make another smug comment, but he quickly shut me up by moving his lips to mine and kissing me deeply. He started to slowly gyrate his body, causing my legs to part. His hand crept under my shirt and under my bra. It was so sudden, so urgent. It almost felt like he wanted to rip the clothes off my body and take me right there and then! He made me feel so incredibly hot, so desired... I wanted him... I wanted him now! And then... he stopped... just like that. He stood up and walked towards the cupboard and started to look for something. Let's just say I was a bit more than mildly annoyed and asked him what the big idea was.
"I have a surprise for you! Come to the bedroom in like 15 minutes, okay?!".
Indeed, after around 15 minutes I heard him calling my name from the bedroom. I stood up and walked toward the bedroom door and opened it. The view took my breath away! The curtains were closed, a beach towel was on the bed and the room was lit by dozens of flickering tealights. Classical music was played softly in the background and the whole room smelt strongly of vanilla and lavender. The doofus used all our scented tealights but it didn't matter, the gesture was so incredibly sweet, and I loved it! He was sitting at the edge of the bed in his black bathrobes gauging my reaction. I was totally flabbergasted and didn't know what to say. With a smug, confident grin plastered on his face he stood up and walked towards me.
He stroked my cheek and looked at me with his beautiful blue eyes. "Tonight is all about you... on one condition"
My eye caught his other hand removing something from his pocket. A sleeping mask, like the one you get from the airport! It was instantly obvious what he meant, and I was so excited. I asked him before if he would like to try it one time, but he never seemed interested.