As he had wakened up that morning and dragged himself around the house, Mark had accepted that his marriage was over. He had no idea as to whether Julie had been unfaithful with Henry yet, but he was certain that she intended to do so on the cruise. He had no proof but he wasn't naive enough to ignore all the signs - if nothing else he had read the guilt on her face when she refused to answer his question. Whatever slim chance existed to heal the wounds and repair their marriage had vanished with the smugness and arrogance he had seen last night.
Pushing that 'send' button with deliberate disrespect toward him had shown her true feelings and that was just more than he could accept. He was resigned to seeing her leave and enjoy her career-building, pleasure-filled cruise before coming home to find the consequences he had warned her about. To some degree he could understand her insistence on going on the cruise. Knowing her overwhelming drive to succeed, he was disappointed, if not surprised. . However, those little panties that she had bought to wear for another man changed the situation from semi-coercion to active participation on her part and changed his attitude.
He would have just let things happen and responded after the fact, presumably filing for divorce when adultery was confirmed. Now, with his anger deeper, if controlled, he would not be so placid and give Julie, and presumably Henry, a free ride. Disruption and harassment would take place. Mark sat quietly at his desk and began some serious thinking about how to mess with Julie's mind as a starting point.
"Ok, she's definitely back in her full-scale bitch mode and she's not going to change so I have to. Now, what will she expect from me during the three weeks before she leaves on the conference cruise? For weeks we have been locked in a no win argument, but now that she has cancelled our fifth anniversary cruise she has won that battle. Even before that she had gotten more arrogant and supercilious and has just ignored my protests. I, in turn, have become more morose and withdrawn since I haven't made any impression on her in getting her to change her mind.
"Two weeks ago we had that confrontation when I saw guilt written all over her face and I thought that I had made some progress when I blew up at her, but it didn't last. She hasn't repeated her earlier criticism and complaints that had caused that blowup and caused me to call her a bitch, but since then she just gives me scornful looks and ignores me. Since then I have been just lost for there was absolutely nothing I could do to fix it.
"I had basically given up and sat around working on my computer while hoping that something would change her mind. We've been living on takeout or delivery food rather than me doing any cooking. I just haven't had the interest or heart to bother with it. Frankly, I'll admit that that I have been acting like a wimp, but I've been dejected and demoralized, clinging to a shred of hope. Now I topped it off last night by actually crying! Damn, that pitying, condescending look on her face! Well, that shred of hope is gone and now I am going to be in control!
"Ok, there's every reason for her to expect my defeated, downtrodden behavior to continue. That is what she will expect, but I will surprise her! I'm going to return to my normal solicitous and affectionate way of treating my loving wife! What could confuse her more than for me to completely ignore the whole issue and act as if there were no problem? Can I do that? Can I act that well and, if so, can I maintain it for almost three weeks? I've got to try. I'll knock some of that god damn arrogance out of her when she can't understand why I'm acting as if everything is back to normal!"
With that decision to confuse and baffle Julie and make her uncomfortable with him, Mark turned to practical steps he should take immediately. "Ok, I need positive proof that she will be with Henry Johnstone on the cruise. Why not have a nice cruise vacation myself? She doesn't want me on that ship with her, but I think I will be there and she won't know it." Opening his laptop, he brought up the Royal Caribbean page, clicked on the Explorer of the Seas and checked on availability of staterooms. "Excellent! Quite a few possibilities. I'll have to find out which cabin she is booked in and get one as near to it as I can. Now, I'll have to find that info.
"Right, what next? I need a lawyer to get things going in case a divorce is where we go. All right, I'll call Ed Simons and see if he can recommend one." Mark had gotten to know Simons personally while helping make the decision between creating an IPO or, instead, being taken over by a major player. Picking up the phone he made a call and, after going through Simon's secretary, explained his problem.
"Look Ed, I know that you don't handle divorce cases, of course, but I thought that you could recommend someone."
"Damn, Mark, I'm sorry to hear that you've got a problem like that. No, I stay with simple things like billion dollar financing for businesses, not difficult things like divorces! However, we are a full-service legal firm and one of our partners, Jonathon Scribner, handles divorces, usually high-profile cases. Wait a minute and I see if he can work you in."
Putting Mark on hold, he called his partner and described the situation. "Hi Jon. Look, I have a client, Mark Schafer, on the line and he enquired about a divorce lawyer and I'd like you to see him - today if possible. Wait, I know it's short notice and you are busy, but Mark is the liaison with us on that possible billion dollar IPO we've been working on."
"Say no more! I'll make room for him. How about 1:00 this afternoon?"
At one o'clock that afternoon Mark was introduced to Jon Scribner and, shortly afterwards, was on a first name basis. "So Jon, I have no direct proof that they've gone all the way yet - in fact, I doubt it. She's never home late, no night meetings or anything like that. I'm certain, however, that she plans to sleep with him on that blasted cruise! Her face has guilt written all over it when she avoids saying who is going on that cruise with her. I'm almost certain that it is Henry Johnstone, her immediate boss"
"All right, Mark; let's look at the whole issue. Obviously, and for good reason, you want to know if your wife is going to commit adultery on this cruise, but for the purpose of your divorce it doesn't matter. The simplest thing is to apply for a divorce based on incompatibility. Her rejection of your long-planned honeymoon cruise and the way she has acted toward you is evidence of that. It should be simple. You have no children so that is not an issue. You own no property and your savings are limited. You have no debt to speak of. Frankly, there are no financial problems in splitting up. Your wife makes almost twice in salary as you so you could ask for alimony, but that would be silly to fight for that.