I have quite a story, but first a little background. I promise to try and be brief.
We were at my husband's annual Christmas Party. It was the usual "swine fest" with the snobbish wives in tow. The food was always good and the music decent so I actually looked forward to going each year. This year was a little different.
For about 6 months my husband had been encouraging me to wear sexier clothing, lower cut blouses and higher skirts. Tighter jeans and open toed shoes. I equated all of that to a mid life crisis, so I went along.
After spending more than I thought he would on more revealing clothing for me, he started acting a little strange. He would encourage me to flirt with other men to see if he could get a lower price, better deal, or a free drink here and there. I honestly do not know why, he made $300K last year. At first I thought it was petty, childish and unneeded. He persisted. So, again, I played along.
I have to admit, it did feel invigorating to capture the attention of younger men at the time and have the influence over their thoughts and the outcome.
This went on for weeks and my husband was relentless in the pursuit of this. He started keeping score (for me) and made it into some sort of sport. As I said, I did enjoy it, but felt it was completely out of character for him.
A few weeks before Christmas we went out for dinner and he said nothing about trying to get a free drink. Our food was perfect and the service was top notch. I was wearing a low cut black dress with Italian stockings and high heel shoes. Nothing really spectacular for where we were eating, but I did notice other men glancing at me. My husband noticed it too. He said nothing. I said nothing. I did enjoy it.
On the way home my husband asked, "Did you notice that guy at the bar in the blue shirt staring at us?"
I played dumb. "No ... But I did notice the waitress seemed to like to listen to you more than me."
I was trying to deflect.
I HAD noticed the younger gentlemen in the blue shirt "eye-fucking" me from across the room on several occasions.
"I think she was just trying to get a bigger tip." my husband replied.
I smiled at this gest and reached out to his thigh.
"It was very crowded in there, I am glad we got a table when we did." I said.
My husband turned and smiled at me.
"I felt a lot of eyes on us in there." He said.
I cleared my throat, "Out of towners and last minute travelers I am sure."
We rode the rest of the way home in silence. Something seemed off.
My husband had a last minute trip out of town a few days later. I was on Christmas Break from the university, so I stayed home and prepared for the holidays.
I sat down at the computer to draft our News Letter and the computer froze up.
After several hours I decided to call my sister, an IT Professional.
With her help, I found a 3rd profile on our home computer that had several different articles, links to porn sites and links to a variety of alternative sex web sites for Cuckolding.
I did not delete anything. I thanked my sister and kept the call short because she was busy.
My husband is a creature of habit and always uses the same password for his accounts. Now that the computer wasn't acting up, I was able to navigate his alternative account.
I found a yahoo email account where he had been messaging a few people about the sexual act of cuckolding. I went into the SENT Folder and my eyes popped out of my head. The things he wrote upset me at first.
Then I got a chat request from one of his contacts.
I declined it.
I got an email. "Answers on how to move forward"
I opened it.
"SON OF A BITCH." I said out loud.
At first, I was upset and distraught. One could even say pissed off.
I read the email and my own husband had been "setting me up" for months. The sexier clothing, the flirting and the shoes.
His leaving the table or taking a long time in the bathroom. Sending me to get a table so others could see me arrive alone.
I read most of this with my mouth open. I was in a little bit of shock.
I got another chat request.
I opened it.
"Get-HER-there" popped up and asked:
Did you read the email?
Do you have any questions?
How is your progress coming along?
I logged in as my husband (yes, dishonest I know ..)
Yes, got the email.
Many questions
Progress is slow but promising.
Get HER there replied:
Remember why you started. Remember all the things we discussed. It takes time but it will be worth it when things shift. Just remember, this IS Pandora's Box. Once its open there is no turning back.
I played along.
Why would she want to do this? That is my biggest sticking point right now.
Get-HER:
Because she has the supportive relationship she wants and the encouragement to sleep with other men with your knowledge.
My mouth popped open and I started to laugh.
"Holy SHIT" I thought to myself.
I replied:
She has been flirting with other men. She has been quite successful at it. A few nights ago we went out to dinner and I caught several men staring at her. She noticed them too.
Get-HER-There:
That is excellent!!
Does she know you want her to have sex with other guys?
Enjoy the dating scene again and then come home and tell you all about it?
Does she know that you have been jacking off in the shower while fantasizing about it?
Me:
No ... she does not know any of that.
Get-HER-There:
Its time to crack that egg Brother. You will never become the Cuckold you want to be if she doesn't know that she can act on these impulses without consequence.