This was really only our second date.
There had been a luncheon meeting to discuss whether my small export firm could represent her company's line of fiberglass products in an overseas market. The second meeting the following evening over dinner was to finalize the agreement. Since we got along so well, I asked her out on a formal dinner date the next night.
In the two earlier meetings she had met me at the restaurants. On the first true date I picked her up at her house. When I arrived she asked me in, and we had cocktails and a pleasant chat before going to dinner. Over dinner we talked some more and I learned she was a widow. I told her I had been divorced for 15 years. We didn't leave the restaurant until well after 10:00 P. M.
When we got to her house, I walked her to the door. It was awkward moments until I leaned down and kissed her. She seemed very responsive and things were heating up well when suddenly she pushed me away, and said, "I had a lovely evening, thank you very much." Like a whisper of fog she opened the door and was gone, leaving me standing there with my whatever hanging out.
I thought about her all the way home, and again in the morning as I showered. I couldn't help it -- later that day I called her. Her voice was light and pleasant as if nothing it happened, so I took a flyer and asked her out for dinner and a movie the following night.
Again I picked her up at her house, this time a little earlier. The view of the lake with the dock and rolling lawn behind her house was beautiful. Again, dinner was pleasant and the movie was all right, just a bit mushy for me.
Disaster struck on the way home.