Tables Turned, Part 2
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I didn't see Wesley for two years. Not in person, at any rate. He was often in the business and society sections of our online newspaper
I wasn't surprised to see his engagement announcement ten months later. I had no doubt she was gorgeous in person, if her photos were any indication. She had a pedigree going back to the Mayflower, and her parents were old money. I doubt if they could keep up with Wesley's family, but they were rich enough.
I gave myself about three minutes to wonder what if, before I shelved the sentiment and looked over the real estate brochures. Mike and I had a terrible row when he finally got home, and ended up separated for three months. He finally talked me into counselling, and a lot came out. He was diagnosed with an addictive personality. Not in alcohol per se, but in anything that took his interest. The counselor used golf as a way to get him to see it.
"I understand you play golf?"
He beamed. "Yes, a minimum of twice a week."
Do you have a good set of clubs? My husband uses Magnum Force, and those clubs cost a fortune."
"That's what I use. They're expensive but worth it."
"So then, you're good at it? What's your handicap?"
He stuttered. His golfing buddies told me he sucked at golf. He'd been playing for over a year and had yet to break 100, despite lessons. "I'm a work in progress."
"I see. What does Holly do while you play golf?"
"What? I donno, stay around the house, I guess."
"If she suddenly found an interest in tennis, joined a club, bought a top of the line racquet or two, designer tennis outfits, and signed up for lessons, limiting to just the time you play golf, would that be all right with you?"
"We couldn't afford that! We're saving for a house."
The therapist sighed. "No Mike, Holly is saving for a house. You're taking what would be your contribution and using it as play money. Do you think that's fair?"
One of our biggest bones of contention was his spending habits. I was tired of renting, and longed for a house filled with love, laughter, and children. I make sure he knew what my long term goals were when we married, but he never quite bought into it.
While right in the middle of trying to formulate a response, the therapist changed tactics. "Mike, I understand you know Wesley Henson."
Mike flushed a deep red. "Yeah. I did some side work for him, as a bartender for some parties he hosted."
"Did you like him?"
"He was a pretty straight up guy when it came to business, but no, I didn't like him."
"Why?"
"Because I felt like he was trying to steal my wife."
"How did he do that? Did they ever have secret meetings, inappropriate interactions, lingering touches, that sort of thing?"
"Not that I saw. But he wanted her, you could tell by the look in his eyes!"
"Yet nothing ever came of it, right? By your own admission neither of you have had contact with him for a couple of years. I understand he's engaged. But tell me, Mike. if he wasn't honorable, and you spent more time on your hobbies than you do on Holly, wouldn't she be ripe for the picking? After all, she sits home, bored most likely. If someone swooped in and started working her, you'd never know. Well, you wouldn't until it's too late."
He stared at her, slackjawed. I don't think it had ever occurred to him before, and you could see it bothered him. The therapist gave him some instructions. "Mike, next week, I want you to limit yourself to once on the course, and take the money you would have spent and use it for something that makes Holly happy. Can you do that?"
To my surprise, he did, and instead of going ahead and planning something, he actually asked me if there was something I wanted to do. I was dying to go to a pottery show at the fairgrounds, and he took me, handing me money just before we entered. "What's this?"
It's the money I would have spent on golf today. I want you to spend it on something you want. Please?"