It was Saturday morning, and the kids were still asleep. I could tell my wife was awake, but wasn't really ready to acknowledge it. I got up quietly, went to the bathroom, then brushed my teeth and shaved, keeping the noise down so I wouldn't disturb Gayle.
When I returned, Gayle was more or less awake, just staring at the ceiling, but not saying anything. I got back into bed, and snuggled up against her, laying my head on her breast, cupping my hand around her other breast. We lay like that for a few minutes, then I whispered to her, "Interested in a little playtime before the kids get up?"
I heard her sigh and hesitate a little, before she said, "Of course."
I was irritated almost immediately - I had been irritated about our sex life for quite some time now. Gayle thought sex was just fine - as long as it was on her terms. Her terms meant that she got oral sex, and she got played with; but as far as she was concerned, once her needs were taken care of, she would provide me with a wet hole to stick my penis in, as long as it wasn't her mouth or her ass.
I pushed my sudden irritation down, after all it had been nearly two weeks since we had had sex, and then it had only been because I had more or less insisted. I was at the point of being horny enough that I was willing to accept what was becoming a real thorn in our marriage.
Actually between the lack of sexual interest on the part of Gayle, and her letting herself go a bit, it already had become a real thorn in our marriage. Gayle was about 5'7", and weighed somewhere north of 180 pounds or so. My guess was that she hadn't gone over 200 yet, but the way things were going it wouldn't be long.
Gayle had weighed about 125 pounds when we got married, with large breasts, although she was in good enough shape that they really didn't sag much. After the birth of our second child, she begin to lose interest in what she looked like, and she had put on a lot of weight. Her breasts now sagged, and she had what could charitably be called a potbelly.
She drank coke constantly, often as much as a six-pack a day, and despite my rather pointed comments, she simply refused to talk about her weight, or about the example she was setting for the kids.
Sure enough, when I suggested that it might be nice to have her reciprocate with a little oral sex, she just said, "You know I think that is nasty. I don't want to do that." Of course she never had, so she might as well have said that she didn't do that.
When we were finished, and at least my hormones were not running wild through my body, we rolled apart and just lay there for a few minutes.
Gayle was quiet for a bit, then finally said: "Sex has really become somewhat boring. I think that we should have an open marriage, so we can experiment a bit, and find things that we like. Maybe you could find the blowjobs you seem to want, and I can find whatever it is that I want."
I was stunned. Our marriage hadn't been going that well, but I sure as hell didn't think that it had gotten to this point. Then the anger hit.
I got out of bed, grabbed her wrist, and pulled her out of bed, and over in front of the full length mirror on the wall.
"Look at you. You continue to gain weight and you won't do anything about it. Your tits are sagging, and your stomach looks like it is trying to match them. You won't do a damn thing about what you look like. You absolutely refuse to do anything sexual that might please me, except provide me with a convenient place to effectively masturbate. Your idea of sex is for you to get off and let me do whatever I can to at least release the tension. You are not even interested in doing anything for me except lie there and spreading your legs. I can't remember the last time you initiated sex."
I calmed down a bit, then very tersely, and very coldly told her: "If you start screwing around on me, that will be the end of our marriage. Absolutely the fucking end! I am not interested in your open marriage bullshit - that is nothing but an invitation to fuck around and destroy a marriage, as well as violate the vows we took to forsake all others."
She stood there, seemingly a bit shocked at my sudden anger, my cum still dribbling down her thigh, then simply said, "You bastard."
"Remember what I said."
I stormed off into the bathroom, turning on the shower, suddenly wanting to scrub myself clean.
When I finished my shower, I dried off, then went into the bedroom and started dressing. Gayle was sitting on the bed, still naked, and her whole being radiated cold.
I finished dressing, and left, going into the kitchen to get things ready for breakfast, and I wasn't a minute too early. The two kids, Erin (ten years old) and Ian (seven years old) were in the kitchen not five minutes later demanding that breakfast be served up immediately.
I hugged them both and asked if pancakes would be an agreeable breakfast, which of course was met with glee.
When breakfast was ready, I went down the hall to our bedroom, opened the door, and saw that Gayle was still sitting on the bed, naked, and talking on the phone. I told her that breakfast was ready, and she should come and get it while it was hot. She simply looked at me, and told me that she would come when she was damn good and ready.
Breakfast done, I waited for awhile, then shrugged and cleaned up the kitchen and put things to right. The kids had been watching cartoons, until I finally told them that they had watched enough TV, and they needed to turn it off and go play outdoors. There were the standard protests, but they knew the rules, and within minutes they were having a great time playing in the playhouse I had built in the backyard.
Shortly after ten the doorbell rang and it was Caitlin from down the street, Erin's best friend. Caitlin was exactly Erin's age, as they shared a birthday, and they had played together since they were about five years old.