This is how I was introduced into the beautiful world of women, and how men, Gentlemen deals with grown up women or true female Goddesses...
At nineteen I was a man of the world, based on a grope and poke history of loving. I apologize to those poor girls, wherever they may be these days, but we were all learning, but I am sorry, I have learned better...
At the time my family and I were living in the larger section of a duplex. In the other section two sisters, almost twins lived, I was in love, at least lust and to add gasoline to my fire, they danced at a famous bar and girl show place on the famous Ft. Lauderdale, Florida beach.
Oh, but I was living in heaven on earth, with all my experience, young muscle bound body it would be no time before these two beauties would be but another of my conquests, two more notches in my bed post.
I tried many ways to entice the girls and finally the girls invited me into their house, not for what I wanted, but to care for their two small pocket dogs, whom I would care for each night, while the girls danced. Real bummer... maybe???
I with all my worldly experience and knowledge they would be putty in my hands, but in a few seconds both girls shot me down, deflated my ego and I wanted to crawl out of their home under the front door.
No, maybe I was worth saving the sisters discussed me as if I was not even there, he could be trained properly for all the other women in his life, as a favor to those in his future.
Finally the girls, excuse me women, asked do you want us to try to instruct you in the proper methods of interacting and loving women?
What... they are speaking to me, the fog lifted and I saw the sunshine, oh how happy I was, and quickly I stammered out "YES, Please".
Then they started my education of the art of dealing with women, all classy, fantastic wonderful and mysterious females, true Goddesses...
All women are and should be treated as the true goddesses that they are. Upbringing or education does not make or create a woman. Women are born and slowly blossom over the years into that wonderful creature we men strive for, fight for and would kill to keep. Their secret weapon is attitude, and that comes from the knowledge that women don't need men, but will grace us with their Devine presence if we men are real good.
This power and Goddess status is supported by man's over-riding desire, lust and brain-dead Pavlov's dog response toward women. We need them, want them, will do anything for them, just on the hope they will take notice of us and grant a moment of their time.
Unless you are treating your women as a goddess, you are cheating yourself and her out of a wonderful, heaven-on-earth experience.
If you take a girl and treat her with kindness, talk to her if she was actually intelligent, she will surprise you and become the goddess you wanted in the first place.
There is no difference between that super sexy exotic dancer, and the mouse of a female you have at home. Except you have not allowed her to blossom into that jewel that you and we all desire.
Each night after the sisters returned home, most times with beautiful female friends, I was shown one more minor secret of the goddess.
Do not rush, take all the time necessary as you are being granted one of greatest gifts on earth being with and interacting with women. The task here is to enjoy the travel and the adventure, and not race to the finish line. Women were God's gift to man, a mate to share and enjoy their lives together in the Garden of Eden.
Talk softly to your goddess, tell her how beautiful she is, because she is. This is also the time that you can set the stage for your goddess, and the enjoyable exchange you are beginning to enter into with your goddess.
Break out the candles, soft dim lights, a fireplace, incense, air fragrances, cover lamps with light scarfs or sheets, turn the lights off in your room, but turn on lights in hallways or closets for soft indirect lighting.
You do not need lights to find your way around, your fingers, hands, lips and partner will help you find your way around. Besides fumbling and tumbling around any female body is fun in it's self, enjoy.
You are building a nest of comfort, security, safety and love into which you are going to invite your goddess to join you.
Slowly touch and caress your goddess, slowly allow your woman to warm up and start to glow into love. In addition to your touches and kind words of encouragement add in light and soft touches or kisses all over her body.
Increase your tempo as your goddess begins to get into the mood, now start light; soft or long kisses on her lips. Don't stop everything else, just include these kisses along with everything else.
A Goddess does not have a transmission like men, who can go from start to go or finish within seconds. This is leftover from our ancient caveman DNA when sex was a function of procreation of the species and not the enjoyable exchange of love, happiness and joy our society has been able to create these days. Besides there is no lion or mammoth over hill ready to kill you - TAKE YOUR TIME, you will enjoy the outcome much more, so will she...