The first few weeks of living together were defined by the almost daily deliveries of items Sarah had ordered. Fine-tuning her idea of us starting a new life together, she systematically went about replacing 'my' key household items with things that were 'ours'. She allowed me to keep a few sentimental items or things that were inherited but the rest went to charity shops or were given away online. Soon we had all new cookware, dinnerware and glasses.
When I suggested we get a television for our bedroom, she tore my head off.
"Mike, we're not getting a TV in the bedroom. The only thing I want to take your attention away from sleep in there is me," she told me hotly.
"Just think about how nice it could be, lazy Sunday mornings where we don't have to get up, we could just spend cuddling and watching TV."
"You hate lying in, and the cuddles should be enough. We're not getting a TV in the bedroom, and no iPads or laptops in there either. I only just tolerate having our phones in there. That's our sanctuary to get away from it all."
Adding to the stress of fulfilling her dream of us living together, was Christmas came about 3 weeks after we had moved. It was supposed to be quiet. Admittedly I ruined that. After moving in together and saving for our first trip to Botswana, we had agreed to no gifts. I looked her in the eye agreed, and promptly ignored it. The plan was simple we would host Christmas with her Mum, and spend Boxing Day with Edward and Karen before moving on to Mum's house for her annual New Year's Party. I ruined the plan on Christmas morning when I surprised her with a 4-day trip to Paris.
Sarah was livid, "You promised me. You agreed to no Christmas presents given how much money we spent moving in together. Now you're spending even more money to take us to Paris. You're a prick."
Thankfully, I had the foresight to present her with the Eurostar Tickets and Hotel confirmation before our guest arrived.
Eventually, I managed to placate her, "Babe, I know what we agreed, and I am sorry, but our first trip together is not going to be Botswana. I want a few days away with you. Just you and me. Don't you want to spend 4 days in Paris with me?"
Softening her face, "I'd love to go Paris with you, it's just you've already paid for most of what we have now and I've only been able to afford half my share of our Botswana trip because of your Dad's contribution. It's just overwhelming."
I took her into my arms and gave her a small kiss, "Babe, I wouldn't have spent a penny if I didn't want all of this. We haven't had a weekend away together except to see my family. The only big trip we have planned also involves my family. I want to do something that only involves us."
She relaxed in my arms, before pulling my face down for another kiss, "So big boy, do you think we have enough time for a Christmas quickie before Mum gets here?"
"Who cares? We can eat a little late," I replied, throwing her over my shoulder and carrying her upstairs.
We were relaxing in the afterglow when I gave her a half-apology, "Love, I'm not sorry for buying the tickets. I know we said no presents for each other but I also want us to have a weekend away, the only free time we have is the weekend after the New Year. So I'm sorry for deceiving you but I'm not sorry about what I did."
She gave a deep sigh and leaned over to kiss me, "You silly man, I'm not really upset with you buying the tickets. I'm more annoyed at myself for not getting you anything, you've provided all this, and I should have known you'd do something anyway."
"Hush, everything I need or want is in this house and, most importantly, in this bed with me. Now come on we need to cook for your Mum."
I didn't need her help and planned to do all the cooking since I hadn't had a chance to properly impress her mother yet. I just liked being in the same room when we were home together even in silence. Liz arrived just over an hour before our Christmas dinner was ready. Sarah allowed her in the kitchen just long enough to kiss me on the cheek and accept a glass of Bucks Fizz before whisking her around the house to show off all the changes we had made in the short time we had lived there.
Thankfully dinner went according to plan, and Liz was suitably impressed,
"Mike, Sarah said you were a great cook, but I think she did you a disservice, you are welcome to cook for me whenever it takes your fancy," she gushed lifting her glass of wine in toast.
"Mum! Don't go getting any designs on my boyfriend, his cooking is for me, consider yourself lucky if and when we decide to invite you," Sarah teased sticking out her tongue.
With a laugh, Liz returned her attention to her meal while Sarah leaned over to kiss me.
I had just served dessert when Liz decided to ask us about our trip to Botswana, "Mike, so what do you have planned for my daughter when you take her to Africa?"
"You know we're spending the first few days in Cape Town, so I imagine I will take her to Robben Island and Table Mountain. Normally I would suggest the wine country, but I am running a half marathon that weekend, so we'll need to keep temptations to a minimum. Though experience tells me Dad will lead us through many pubs. Botswana is a lot simpler, during our first week there I plan to show her where I grew up and take her to some of my favourite places, and restaurants. She'll get to meet my Mum's family. We haven't discussed this yet, but for our last week, I'd like to take her on safari."
Sarah's eyes lit up, "Safari? Like elephants, giraffes and lions."
"Yes love, I can't promise lions or any other predators since they play by their own rules but I can almost guarantee the rest."