This series is a non-sequential addendum to the "Sharing My Wife Amanda" storyline.
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It was a sad day when Amanda's mother Jacquelyn finally passed away. She had battled valiantly, but in the end my mother-in-law succumbed to metastatic cancer.
Jacquelyn's death was not unexpected, but that didn't lessen the blow for her friends and family. A life was taken too soon from this world, and our only comfort was that she died peacefully in her sleep, without pain or suffering, and surrounded by those who loved her.
Amanda wasn't just the most beautiful, the most intelligent, and the most kind-hearted person I knew, and would ever know; she also possessed an inner strength that was like a rock against endlessly crashing waves. My wife grieved over the loss of her mother, but steeled her resolve to move on. It wasn't due to callousness or lack of caring, but the world didn't stop for anyone, and Amanda came to terms with that cold, hard fact very quickly.
Amanda's father Franklin didn't take Jacquelyn's death nearly as well.
My father-in-law slipped into a pit of despair that no one- not even Amanda, his only child whom he cherished as much as his late wife- could pull him out of. After all, Franklin had just lost his spouse of over 30 years. In the weeks that followed Jacquelyn's death, he fell deeper and deeper in a melancholia that terrified those who cared about him.
Especially Amanda.
One random morning, my wife and I were seated at the breakfast with our 5 year-old son James when she suddenly turned to me. I knew that something in particular had been gnawing at her for the past week, and she finally appeared ready to talk about it.
"What's on your mind, Mandy?"
"We have to convince my father to move in with us."
Immediately after my mother-in-law's funeral, we had invited Amanda's father to stay with us. He was nearly inconsolable as he continued to process his grief, and my wife wanted to keep an eye on him, nor did she want him to be alone. But Franklin repeatedly refused, gruffly stating things like "I'm fine" and "you kids need your privacy."
But when Franklin's depression seemed to be worsening almost 3 months after Jacquelyn's death, Amanda would no longer take 'no' for an answer. The circle of life had reversed their roles: now my wife fell compelled to take care of her father.
"It'll be fine," she desperately tried to convince her father one evening after dinner at our house. "You can come and go as you please, and we can easily convert the basement into an apartment and make it your own personal space."
"Honey, it's not
my
personal space that I'm worried about. I may no longer be a spring chicken, but I still remember what it was like to be young and in love. Weren't the two of you talking about having more kids just the other day?" Franklin's expression softened. "I appreciate what you're trying to do for me. But trust me, when Little Jimmy goes to sleep and you want to start working on baby number 2, the last thing you'll need is for your old man to be here in the house with you."
"That's not true-" I began.
"Oh god, daddy!" Amanda interjected. "Are you serious? Do you really think we're concerned about that right now?"
Franklin's expression began to break and his voice started to crack as he held back tears. "I know you mean well, and you say this now, but 2 months from now... or even 2 weeks from now... when the arrangement gets old..."
James, who had been playing with his toys in the next room, suddenly came streaking in like a missile. He made a beeline for his grandfather and attached himself to the man's leg. "Grampa Frankie! Come live with us! Come live with us!"
Was our 5 year-old son actually eavesdropping?!?!
Franklin, suddenly overwhelmed with emotion, looked at his only grandchild as tears began to flow. Then he regarded us, unable to speak but more significantly, unable to ask for help even though he clearly needed it.
"Come live with us." Amanda repeated our son's words, barely unable to keep herself from crying.
Tears welled up in my own eyes, but I remained silent. Amanda and Franklin both knew that they had my unconditional love and support, but this was something they needed to work out on their own.
Franklin attempted to maintain a strong front, but was failing. "Are you sure?" His voice was barely above a whisper.
"Yes, daddy!" my wife cried.
"Dad, of course," I assured him wholeheartedly.
Franklin looked at us, then down at James, who was regarding him with an innocent and equally hopeful expression, then sighed and finally nodded. "Ok, then. If you're sure." He hesitated. "Ever since Jacquelyn... you guys are the only reason I have to live anymore."
I stepped back and smiled warmly as father and daughter hugged each other fiercely, crying tears of both joy and sadness.
James, still too young and innocent to truly comprehend the crueler realities of life, pumped his fists in the air and whooped, "Yay!"
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Two days after my father-in-law moved in, we heard James crying in his bedroom at around 3 o'clock in the morning. I groaned, but Amanda was already throwing off the blankets.
"It's ok, Mandy," I told her groggily. "I'll go."
"Don't worry about it, babe. You need to be up for work before me. Besides, I'm already wide awake." Amanda suddenly cocked her head. It was only then that I noticed that our son had stopped crying, but she rose from the bed, anyway. "Let me go check on him."
My wife quickly rushed out of our bedroom and toward James, hoping to get to him before he started crying again and woke up her father. But when she entered his room, Franklin was already there, lying next to his grandson and comforting the boy.
"Mommy, I had a bad dream that the bad guys beat all the superheroes," James told her between sobs.
She was glad that the darkness his her smile. "It's ok, baby. Mommy's here now. Here, let me hold you."
Amanda approached with outstretched arms, but our son buried his face into Franklin's chest, much to the man's surprise, and shook his head emphatically. "No. I want Grampa."
My wife was, at once, delighted and hurt. "But, baby, mommy always-"
"No! I want Grampa!" The little boy looked up at Franklin. "Grampa Frankie, will you stay with me? At least until I fell asleep again?"
Franklin couldn't help but beam proudly. "Sure, Little Jimmy. Grampa Frankie will stay here with you for as long as you want." He looked up at his daughter and smiled warmly. "Go back to sleep, Amanda. I got this."
While my wife was still smarting from the fact our son essentially chose his grandfather over her, it warmed her heart to see them together like this.