"Cindy" was a, 21-year-old, woman that I met, in a West Covina, California, Baptist church, who was studying at Mt. San Antonio Community College, in a Sociology class with me. I was 25, studying media. She was studying accounting, worked, in the records department, at a local hospital, and looked like a, wonderful, cross between Lady Diana and Olivia Newton-John. Blonde, about 5-6, with short hair, a nice, cute, though, average body, nice, bright, blue eyes and a pretty smile. I was 5-10, average build, with brown hair and green eyes.
Cindy and I started dating, but she was upset that she let her previous, high-school, boyfriend push her into taking her virginity which she wanted to save for her future husband.
I took the high road and didn't "jump her bones" so she broke things off saying, "I didn't think you liked me because you didn't try to score on the second date."
I tried to explain that I didn't want to be a bad memory and was interested in long-term love and happiness. I didn't want to be a selfish jerk that she would hate the next morning after a quick night in the sack.
Cindy quickly shoved me into the "Just friends" category though I loved her, anyway, in my, emotional, pain, as I watched her move from guy-to-guy who talked her into bed, then dumped her, including someone, from church, that I was friends with, who knew that I loved her and that I wasn't going to use her. After he got Cindy pregnant, and quickly dumped her, she aborted their baby, and was devastated.