"Max, do you have any particular ideas about Spring Break?"
I'd been a few weeks since Sheila and I had moved from being roommates to lovers, and, to me, life had been just perfect. What I had feared most, that us getting together romantically would destroy the relationship we'd slowly developed as friends, hadn't happened. Now, we were close, in a way I never realized before was possible, but we were still best friends, helping each other, being with each other, having just regular fun as well as romance. Spring Break started on Saturday, March 25th, just a couple weeks away, but I hadn't been thinking about it at all.
Well, that's not quite true. I had worried that Sheila and I would be apart for those nine days, and I didn't like that idea at all. A lot of college kids head for Florida for Spring Break, and I guess that it would be awesome to go with Sheila, but Brown is a pricey school, and I didn't see any way to afford that.
"Not really," I replied. "What about you?"
"Well, before I met you, I just went home on Spring Break. If I change that now, my folks will know that something's changed. But, you know what, I'm ready to tell them what's happened, and, assuming that they don't flip out, I'd like for you to come up to Maine with me for Break."
"Think that they'll flip out?" I'd only met her parents briefly, before and after Christmas Break, and while I guess that I'd recognize them again, I didn't even remember their names.
"I don't know. They never said anything when my brothers brought girls home, but I'm their little girl, and that might be different. My mom did ask if you were my boyfriend, before Christmas, and I'd told her no. But I'm pretty sure that they'll like you."
"Even after I've violated their daughter?"
Sheila just busted out laughing. "Violated? Oh, you big brute, having ravished me so," she mocked. But her mockery got me another kiss, as I knew it would; she seems to find almost any excuse possible to kiss me, and I sure didn't mind.
"We going to have to sleep apart?" I could picture her parents enforcing that in their own home.
"Well, there would be room, since Don, my older brother, probably won't be there, but I'll put my foot down about that; we sleep together, or I'm not coming home."
That made me smile. "OK, well we have to tell our folks, one way or another. Tell you what, you call your parents first, and after that's settled, I'll call mine. I know that my folks will be happy for us."
It was a little bit weird, hearing one side of a telephone call, but I could tell that it was going well. There was no obvious tension in Sheila's voice, and the longer she talked, the more she smiled. After she hung up, I got the low-down on the other side of the conversation.
Yes, her mom was happy for her, and yes, I was sleeping in her room with her. It turned out that her mother and father had faced a similar situation back before they got married, and had to sleep apart when visiting her parents, and her mom wasn't going to enforce that on her. Her father hadn't been at home when she called, so he wouldn't know until he got home, but, not to worry, Mrs St Croix would let him know just what was happening. I got the impression that Mrs St Croix would be telling him what was happening, and going to happen, and that would be that.
But one thing, Sheila wouldn't tell me much about her home, just teasing me with the barest of hints and "You'll sees." I wasn't sure whether I should look forward to that, or dread it.
Then it came time for my phone call home. My father is an attorney, and a Brown alumnus - both my parents went here, which might be why I got in; I'm a 'legacy' - and if they weren't the wealthiest people in Stowe, they were hardly the poorest. I'd won some scholarships, and a couple of grants, but, most important, my family had enough money for me to attend an Ivy League school without me having to take out huge student loans. The fact that I was an only child probably helped. Anyway, both of my parents were home, since my father has his practice out of an office at home, and they seemed pretty happy for me. At one point, my mom asked me a question, and I answered pretty directly with, "I don't know, we haven't talked about that yet," before I realized that Sheila had to have heard my answer, and figured out the question.
After I hung up, she smiled at me and said, "So, you got the same question I did, didn't you?"
"Yeah, I guess that's pretty obvious. Was your mom pushy?"
"No, not over the phone, but she'll have a full week to get pushy."
"So, maybe we ought to talk about it before then?"
"Oh, God, Max, we've been a couple for what, not quite a month now? Don't you think it's a bit early to be talking about that?"
"No, I don't."
Sheila just looked at me, kind of dumbfounded. We'd just had a six-sentence conversation about the subject, but the word 'marriage' was never uttered; it was danced around. My mom had asked me if we were going to get married - she's pretty conservative about that kind of thing - and apparently Sheila's mother had asked her the same question, though I wasn't sure when. I guessed that Sheila's answer was cryptic enough that I didn't realize what she had answered, and she hadn't told me about it until it was obvious that I'd gotten the same question from my mother.
"Max, yes it is, it's too early. We still have another year of school yet, and I'll have to get my masters to teach, and you're going to have grad school as well." Still, the word had been avoided.