I'd like to thank kenjisato, again, for great editing and my dining friends for input. If you find any mistakes, it's probably something I did after editing.
Active sexual activity only involves characters over the age of eighteen. Any similarities to persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. Names have been changed to protect the innocent and my bank account.
A DIVORCE AND A NEW DAWN
Camping to renew myself.
I had one more night before I needed to break camp, and head back down to the Valley of the Sun. My name is Dave Toner, I am a middle school math teacher and a part-time sports official. I had just started my summer break, or summer recess, just don't call it a summer vacation. Going to summer school, summer conferences, writing yearly lesson plans... or re-writing yearly lesson plans to change to some mode of teaching that some
jackass
in an ivy-covered hall at some college thinks is the next best thing since sliced bread, is never a vacation! I am of Irish, Scottish, and probably a little Norse heritage, five-foot-ten, of course blue eyes. Officiating sports keeps me in reasonable shape.
This was just a camping trip to change the scenery. I had just divorced my wife, Julia, of four years. She had an affair with a guy at work, we even tried to fix things, but we were not able to. The only thing about the divorce that was 'good,' was that I got the house and two of our dogs. Julia got our other little dachshund pup Hildi. My dogs were two little brown dachshund torpedoes, Herbie and Heidi. I could tell they missed Julia. Sometimes, they would search the house, I knew they were looking for her.
Everyone needs a mantra.
It was kind of a renewal for me. You see, fishing is my 'mantra.' I had caught 'some' trout in Oak Creek, I was carrying my two-and-a-half days' catch in an ice chest, but that would be over my possession limit by one, nine, and a game warden could cite me, but I know I'd be able to beat it since five were frozen solid and not all were caught the same day. I had them packed in ice for the two-hour drive back to Phoenix that I'd make first thing in the morning. It was hot during the day, but cooled off at night, being at 5,500 feet in elevation. With an average breeze speed of twelve miles an hour, the nights are in the low forties, with daytime temps in the high eighties to low nineties, it is '
sleeping bag, not required but recommended
.' But having Herbie and Heidi with me was quite nice at night, here at the north end of the Oak Creek Canyon where Arizona State Route 89A, makes the switchbacks out of the canyon up to the west portion of Mogollon Rim, (Muggy-own Rim). At that point, you travel only 1,900 feet as the crow flies, but two-and-a-quarter miles in the switchbacks, and gain 1,420 feet in elevation.
The days I had spent camping was a change— fresh air, my puppies at my side usually asleep and good fishing— it was something I needed.
Wow, a fight out here in paradise.
I had met a couple who were camping near me. They were an unusual pair. Dawn O'Connor was blonde, a five-foot-nine dynamo, she had an electromagnetism about her; she was maybe Irish or of Scottish heritage, O'Connor could be either. Her boyfriend, Paul Fisciano, 'Feci,' was an Italian-looking fellow. In my opinion, he looked like a six foot-ish, overgrown, spoiled child; he sounded immature as all get out.
That night, they had a hell of a fight. He packed up and got into his car and just
fuckin'
left! After about sixty or more minutes, she realized he was not coming back.
She came to my campfire in tears, she sounded like a lost soul. I gave a comforting hug, and I felt a surge run through my body. My dogs snuggled up to her, and she quieted down. I am a sucker for women in distress, maybe that's why I was divorced; my ex never seemed to appreciate my concern whenever she was the damsel in distress.
As Dawn and I talked, I found out this was not the first time that Paul had driven off, leaving her because he was mad. But, this was the farthest from home he had done it—
one hundred forty miles
! One thing, Dawn's purse was in his car! She had no money on her, but she did have a copy of her driver's license, she had an old one tucked into her phone case, she had replaced it when she had lost it less than a year before and then found it after she replaced it.
As the evening got cooler, I offered her a hoodie which was too big, but it kept her warm. When it looked like the baby-faced moron wasn't coming back for her, I offered her a sleeping bag and a place in my tent. A little after seven-fifteen, the sun had finally disappeared from the canyon floor. I set up her sleeping bag on the other side of the tent from me.
I extinguished the campfire and crawled into my sleeping bag; Dawn was already snuggled into the sleeping bag, and I snuggled into mine. The dogs each took a human to snuggle up to. We continued our talking, I told her about my divorce, and she told me about her rough time with Paul.
I found out she was a teacher and I told her I was a teacher, too! She taught in the same school district as I did! She said she was switching schools this fall, and she was going to be teaching English at South Middle School.
I said, "NO WAY! That is where I teach!"
We ended up talking way past midnight. During our conversations, I told her I would definitely be giving her a ride all the way to her place in the morning!
The drive home.
We talked while we finished breaking camp. She packed up what Paul had left and her stuff.
She was just a year younger than me. We both had graduated from Arizona State University, ASU. In fact, I had to wait until her year to walk through graduation since I had graduated in January.
As we drove out of the campground, I asked, "What are you going to do when you get back to his apartment?"
She said, "I need a change, he has been like this for the last year, our fight was over him wanting to have sex with me, I was just not in the mood.
Oh my god
,
I am so embarrassed I just told you that...
I need to leave him, but I have nowhere to go. He works as a truck driver for a building supply company, but never seems to have enough money for the rent or groceries, he has bled me dry. So, I do not have money to find a place."
One hell of an idea.
"Dawn, I have three extra bedrooms and I live two blocks from the school. I could put you up as a fellow teacher, you know, like a boarder or tenant."
We got in the truck and left the Pine Flat Campground. After twenty-seven miles of her silently thinking, I turned on to Interstate 17, then she said, "Okay, I'll do it."
"Do you think he will drive back up to get you?"
With a laugh, she said, "He won't find me there!"
"Well, let's see, you need to call the Coconino National Forest rangers, they will contact Coconino County, and the Yavapai County sheriffs' departments, (two of the counties that Coconino National Forest is in), then tell them that you got a ride so if he tries to find you and calls them, that way they won't be searching for you."
In the next half hour, she had to tell her '
tale of the bad boyfriend
' to a Coconino National Forest ranger! Luckily, she was able to talk to a female ranger on the call. All three departments worked together all the time, the National Forest people asked her to meet a Yavapai County deputy sheriff in Cordes Junction, Arizona at the McDonalds to verify who she was, and to take a report for all three agencies. We spent the next thirty-six miles of Interstate figuring out how to get her stuff out of his apartment. That was the easy part, the hard part was making sure he wouldn't find her easily, but that turned out to be easy, too.
Dawn added tears, which helped the deputy in believing her story. He said he had a daughter her age and I could see his anger even though he was trying to hide it. I bought the deputy a burger, fries, and a Coke while he took the report. (You can still do that in some places). Dawn asked that my name be kept out of the report and the deputy said he would just call me a 'concerned citizen', she was thinking ahead, if he came looking for her when she got back home.
We ate at McDonald's and continued on to my place in Scottsdale. I asked Dawn how much stuff she had.
She said, "We might have to make at least two, maybe three trips."
"No, I'll just get a U-Haul for the day. A good size truck is only about thirty dollars a day."
She looked at me like a lost puppy. I got on my phone and called some teachers from my school— a couple of single female teachers, and a couple of single male teachers and coaches, to help us on Tuesday.
When we arrived, I set her up in one of my extra bedrooms.
What was great about our getting back on Monday, Dawn's soon-to-be ex-boyfriend HAD to work on Tuesday. Dawn did call and left him a message, "I am getting a ride from a nice old lady and will be home on Tuesday. I will talk to you when you get home Tuesday after work." When she hung up, she said, "Like hell I will!" And finished with, "The fucker thinks he has taught me a lesson!"
Mi casa es su casa
On Tuesday, it took us two hours to get all her stuff out of the ex's place, she grabbed her stash of cash, she found a load of cash on his dresser, maybe some of it was hers, after all he DID owe her money. She grabbed that, too. The move, it wasn't neat, but it was quick. The guys and I did the heavy lifting, and we were the beasts-of-burden. In under two hours, we filled the U-Haul and were gone! She left him a note... "WE ARE THROUGH!" My female teacher friends helped Dawn with washing clothes and setting up her room.
On the way home, we stopped at the city courthouse, and she filed an '
Injunction Against Harassment
', in other words, a "no contact order" for Paul. (It included boilerplate type words:
threat
, violence, possibly alarmed, annoyed,
humiliated