And That's How I Met...
When she locked the door, I knew I was to be punished.
Warning:
Though this is a romantic story of true love, it does contain scenes of sexual assault and rape. The story also carries a strong anti-Catholic theme. Please do not read if either of these may offend you.
I scanned old US Highway 90, first east towards Houston, and then west towards San Antonio for as far as my imagination could carry me. Shielding my eyes from the intense first rays of the morning sun, I was trying to catch a glimpse of the Greyhound Bus -- or any bus for that matter. However, the only things moving were autumn leaves drifting in the light morning air foretelling the change of another season. The war with Japan had been over for almost two months and not a single boy from Flatonia had returned home yet. I probably would not have been reminded of that, except that the first signs of fall had swept across the Texas prairie the night before and left the morning air feeling fresh and cool. The falling leaves were like fleeting memories of life before the war, and I was suddenly missing my brothers for the first time since V-J Day.
Now don't get me wrong, our little town had nothing to complain about. Though we had heard that as many as forty boys from Fayette County weren't coming home, as far as we knew, all the young men from Flatonia survived the war and would be reunited with family and friends soon. It's not that I wasn't grateful for God's mercy in protecting our boys; I was extremely grateful. It's just that I was impatient as all four of my brothers were serving oversea, as were virtually every boy in town of my generation, and we just wanted them home.
Not only were there almost no boys in my high school graduating class -- there were no males my age period, only little boys, and old men. Along with my two younger sisters Pavla and Olivia, I was left to work the family farm with my parents. I sensed that my youth was slipping away, just like those leaves floating in the autumn wind. As I came of age during the war, I felt somehow cheated of the normal schoolgirl romances and adolescent flirtations that I felt I was entitled to. In those brief respites from farm and household chores, I couldn't help but feel frustrated and hopelessly alone.
Just as my melancholy was reaching a new low, a car came barreling down the dirt road that ran past our property. With the car's horn blaring, the driver and the passenger were both shouting out the open windows at the top of their lungs, "They're coming -- they're coming on the train."
I ran as fast as I could to tell Mamma, and as I approached the back porch, she came dashing out the kitchen door screaming, "They're home -- they're coming home." She grabbed me as I leapt onto the porch and swung me around, "Marika, did you hear -- did you hear? They're on the train."
"Yes Mamma, I heard," I said wiping tears of joy from my face.
"Go get your papa, let's all get in the truck and try to get to the station before the train arrives," she said wiping her own tears of joy from her face.
Only two of my brothers were on that first train, but over the next several weeks every soldier, sailor and Marine from our little patch of Texas, safely made it home, including my two remaining brothers.
The town of Flatonia was so grateful to have its sons home, the town fathers decided to throw a huge party in celebration. The city park was thoroughly cleaned as were adjacent vacant lots to be used for parking. A large bandstand was erected, and booths were set-up to sell food and drinks. It was going to be a magnificent celebration with music, dancing and even fireworks.
As the big day arrived, almost everyone took the day off from work in preparation. And as requested by the city fathers, the guests of honor -- our returning veterans -- were all asked to wear their uniforms and display any awards and metals they may have earned during the war. The ladies -- including me and my sisters -- were all expected to wear our finest party dresses.
Just as the autumn sun dipped below the western horizon, the
'Sons of the Texas Sage'
mounted the bandstand, and the party was on. None of the booths sold beer, as Fayette County was still dry in those days. But San Antonio was not, and bottles of Lone Star and Pearl Beer were abundant as local law enforcement casually looked the other way.
As the celebration progressed, I don't think I had ever seen my parents happier. Mamma and Papa were both born Czech-Catholics and had immigrated to Texas from the old Austro-Hungarian Empire as children before World War I. In fact, as I was growing-up, more than half the population of the county was Czech-Catholic and this did create some resentment from the original Anglo and German settlers that were all Protestant and had been there for generations.
The Czech language was still very prominent throughout the community. Several Czech language newspapers were published daily throughout South Texas, many first-generation kids started school not knowing how to speak English, and like most immigrants -- they clung tightly to their religion as a source of both comfort and security. My parents fit this mold to a tee. They spoke Czech almost exclusively at home and our family subscribed to a Czech language paper. And to say Mamma and Papa were devout Catholics would have actually been quite an understatement.
Though Papa had a farm to tend and a family of nine to feed, he spent hundreds of hours working on the building and grounds of our parish church. Mamma had a small shrine in her room and prayed in front of it on her knees several times a day -- generally after breakfast before she started her chores for the day and immediately before getting into bed each night.
But back to the Victory Celebration -- for the first time, maybe ever, Mamma and Papa let me and my sisters out of their sight. Generally, my brothers could do anything they wanted, as long as they weren't arrested for it. However, their daughters were guarded like priceless jewels. They did send us to public school, as we couldn't afford parochial school, but other than that, we were rarely let off the farm and when we were, it was always with an older family member present.
So, the liberty of not being chaperoned that night was a new experience for all three of us. And I can't speak for my two younger sisters, but for me it was a freedom I had dreamed of for years. It's not that I had immorality in my heart -- I didn't. It was just that I wanted to be respected and treated as an adult. I was eighteen, I'd graduated high school, and in the eyes of the law as well as in my own mind, I was an adult. I respected my parents; I honored the sacrifices they had made raising seven children and I fully believed myself to be a virtuous young woman as well as a committed Catholic. But tonight, was my night to spread my wings, kick-up my heels and party like it was 1945 -- not 1845.
For the first hour or so Pavla, Olivia and I all hung out together. But as the evening sky grew dark and hundreds of bare bulb lights came on that were strung from every tree and pole in the park, I began to feel a little more liberated. Once the band started several young men in uniform asked me to dance, but I kept declining for other than traditional Czech folk dances at church socials, I'd never danced in my life -- and certainly not with a boy.
As my sisters snickered at each request and subsequent refusal, my resolve to dance with someone only grew stronger. Just as I was getting my courage up, someone tapped me on the shoulder.
Thinking it would be someone I knew, I pivoted on the balls of my feet and with a big smile on my face I started to say, "Yes, what do you want." But to my surprise, it wasn't anyone I knew at all. It was the most handsome man I'd ever seen in my life. He was at least a foot taller than me and as I gazed up into his steel blue eyes, every intelligent thought in my head just vanished.
As I stood there speechless for what seemed like an eternity, he just stood there smiling at me before finally asking, "Would you like to dance?"
