I was 26 years old the first time I had anal sex. I was dating V, a conservative, deliberate man with Howdy Doody good looks. V and I were doomed from the start, being polar opposites; but the sex was amazing because...um...we were polar opposites. Life can be so unfair sometimes.
One night, V shocked the hell out of me by asking if I wanted to get fucked in the ass. Imagine those words coming out of Mr. Doody's mouth; shocking right? And fucking hot as hell!!! I immediately rolled over onto my stomach, ass in the air, hands spreading my butt cheeks as far as I could (even back then I was an adventurer) while V lubed up and buried his cock slowly in...mmmmmmm...I came over and over as V inserted himself into my tight little hole, again and again and again. Who would have thought?
I also discovered that V loved a finger and a tongue in his ass (though not at the same time). It took me a long time to get up the nerve to put my finger in; I used desensitization - every time we had sex, my finger would creep millimeters closer to bulls eye. Until finally one day...well, after that he practically rammed my tongue in his bum. That's how hard he came.
The ass is off limits to a lot of men, perhaps because they think it is somehow "gay". However, the explorers among us know that there are a lot of sensitive nerve endings back there, and that the male prostate is the equivalent of the female G-Spot.
Some women feel that anal sex is degrading and dirty. Well...that's because it kind of is. That is what adds to the pleasure of getting a cock deep in the ass. It's also naughty, kinky and nasty...everything (great) sex should be.
Since V, ass play has been a regular part of my sexual repartee. If it's on the menu, I'll order it from time to time. There is an art to backdoor sex, and certain cardinal rules. Ladies and gents take heed...good lovers know that you need plenty of lube (did I mention that you need plenty of lube?) and that you need to start out slowly...ease into it, so to speak...until the initial pain (and goddamn, I'm not gonna lie...it hurts) turns into intense, deep shocks of pleasure (be patient; it will happen). Believe me, with the right lover, anal sex will give the intrepid the most intense orgasms (yes, orgasms -plural!) they have ever had. Finally, it goes without saying that cleanliness is an absolute must. However, as I have discovered, there is an
expiration date for cleanliness, or AED (Anal Expiration Date).
My current boytoy, Mr. Yummy, and I are still in that experimental stage in bed. We'd been hinting around the subject of anal for two weeks when it finally came up. Although Mr. Yummy is an artsy, think-outside-the-box type that will try anything two or three times, he's also polite and respectful to a T. Sometimes I've got to coax him a bit and give him the green light here and there until he takes control.
Finally, he tip toed his way around the subject and asked how I felt about anal.
