Oh COME ON! You all know you have had at least one in your lifetime. I have had 3 I believe. That is a respectable number in my opinion. I have had the adventure but am not on the slut level compared to most "ladies". That's my story and I am sticking to it!
One of my one night stands was what I refer to as "Life Changing". This night of passion changed my entire outlook on sex from that point on and although some may consider it as sleazy as sleazy can be I am so glad it happened.
Before you all get whipped into lather, NO I did not cheat on "The Angry Guy". This happened back in 1995. It happened when I had been separated from my Ex for about 6 months and although "The Angry Guy" and I had become friends at work, we were not "hanging out" yet. "The Angry Guy" knows about it because I told him at the time it happened but he doesn't know and doesn't want to know the gory details about it ESPECIALLY now.
Yes, I have been thinking about that fateful night lately because of what I am going through with "The Angry Guy" and his lack of drive...sex drive that is.
As I said this happened a long time ago. I was separated from my Ex, working with "The Angry Guy" and had gone back to school. I was 29 years old and although I had sexual experiences that were pleasant, I had never had mind blowing sex.
I was one of the oldest students in my class. I was dealing with mostly horney 18 year old boys. They were too cute. They used to try out their lines and their moves on me. Some of them were quite good at it. One of the standard lines was that I looked like I was 18. I was tempted on occasion to fuck one or two of them but was particularly fragile at that point in my life. "The Angry Guy" told me that anybody who told me that I looked any younger than 25 was just trying to "get into my pants". He was cute back then. That was when we were just becoming friends so he was honest and funny with me. I could tell him things like that without him freaking out. Also I was younger and thinner back then. Although I was going through a terrible divorce and custody battle, I was strong and self confident about my appearance. You can see it in my eyes if you ever see pictures of me from back then. It was a bitter sweet time for me. I was going through a terrible time at home but never felt so good about myself.
So I won a scholarship for my last year of school. I was told that it was the biggest they had ever given and I was expected to attend an awards dinner. At the time I didn't know who to ask to go with me so I asked a guy from school who was a little older. He was 25. Even though he was still younger than me I liked him. He was terribly funny. You all know that I am a whore for a guy who makes me laugh.
At one point when he and I were hanging out in the cafeteria at school I mentioned that all I wanted for Mother's day was a "good orgasm". Now I say that all the time but to a young guy I guess that is a stunning remark. So "Young Guy" and I got to joking around. He of course told me that if I ever wanted to hook up he could take care of my Mother's Day wish.
I remember feeling pretty lonely back then. Flirting with the young boys at school was fun but not sexually satisfying so when Mother's Day rolled around I did my shift at work and agreed to meet "Young Guy" at a local motel. I know SLEAZY RIGHT?!?!?!