Hey guys, Two Bit here. I overheard a discussion my wife was having with a friend of hers last week that really got me thinking. I am fortunate (Or rather my wife is) that I enjoy eating pussy. And from all indicators I'm pretty good at it. So I thought I'd put together a tutorial of my methods. I'm not trying to claim I'm some amazing lover. I have my issues like everyone else but on this particular subject my enthusiasm has served me well. That being said I might be wasting my time but if this helps a small handful of people then it's time well spent in my book.
1. Exploration is important: It doesn't matter if you're with your wife of 30 years or the easy chick you picked up for a one nighter. Treat every time like an opportunity to learn something new.
2. Don't go straight for the man in the boat (her clit): Make it about her body, foreplay can never be over valued, she should be plenty hot and bothered before your lips reach her nether region. kissing her neck, nibble lightly on her earlobe. Pay attention to what her body tells you. A sharp inhale is almost always a good indicator your on the rite track. Rubbing her inner thigh while you're loving on her is usually well received.
3. The rolling trail south: If all is going well her body should be responding, don't only listen to her words (but do pay attention to what she says if she's talking) react to her body. Every woman has queues that indicate when she's turned on. It takes time to learn them sometimes but if you pay attention you should be able to pick up on when its time to proceed. I like to lay a trail of kisses down her collar bone when its time to head south.
4. Pit stop at the pleasure peaks: When kissing down her chest kiss a nipple with the tip of your tongue pressed between your lips, this leaves the nipple slightly wet, then open your mouth above the nipple and inhale, the air traveling over her wet nipple has a cooling effect. Then wrap your lips around her nipple and suck lightly. The transition from cool to warm is usually well received but if she doesn't like it then you'll know for next time, if her nipples aren't sensitive rubbing them with your tongue while lightly sucking them can also be enjoyable.
5. Move on: Don't dwell too long at her nipples, they are fun and can provide a lot of pleasure but they aren't the end game. Pay them both some attention so long as its being well received and then continue kissing down to her naval area.
6. Two paths forward. Option 1 : If she's responding well it might be time to get to the main event, continue kissing down while positioning yourself between her legs, kiss down the crease of her leg until you can kiss her pussy lips.
7 Option 2: If you think shes up for a little bit of teasing I like to sit up and crawl between her legs, raise and lay over one of her knees so you can kiss the inside of her leg just above her knee, kiss up her inner thigh using the same method as her nipple leaving a trail of wet spots up her inner thigh.
8. The main event: The time has come... you now have two goals, first to figure out what her body responds to the most, and to keep doing that until she makes you stop. start by sliding the tip of your tongue between her lips slowly slide it up and down while pressing deeper between her lips. When your tongue first makes contact with her clit you might feel her body jump. This is a good sign that she's aroused, lightly rub the tip of your tongue against her clit slowly applying more force. Once your tongue is making full contact with her clit I like to slide it down to get a taste of how wet she is. there are several techniques you can use to provide her stimulation. I'm going to list the ones I find most enjoyable in my experience but some trial and error will be needed, if you don't feel her responding or hear any indication she likes it move on to something else.