A note to perplexed wives:
If you've found this story in your husband's browsing history, congratulations! You hit the jackpot --you have yourself a cuck husband! Please keep an open mind and remember that he wants to see YOUR sexual liberation. If you choose to get into this, YOU should be the one in control. If he's a true cuck, he'll accept that and let you take the lead.
Also, you should consider the possibility that he left this story in his browsing history, or in a place where you could find it, on purpose, as a passive way of bringing up the topic. Don't be too hard on him, he's only trying to be more open with you about his sexual needs.
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So you want to be a cuckold?
Here's the good news: YOUR WIFE WANTS TO CHEAT ON YOU.
How do I know? Because your wife is a human being and it's a biological fact that human beings are wired to desire a variety and multiplicity of sexual partners. This includes your wife.
But let's back up and talk about you, the would-be cuckold. I suspect that the biggest obstacle between you and the realization of your dream is your own shame and social conditioning. One of the things that makes the cuckold fantasy so appealing is that it runs counter to the typical image of masculinity. Men are supposed to jealously guard 'their' women as if they were property. It is more socially acceptable to assault a man who sleeps with your wife than it is to consent to, or encourage, the so-called infidelity. Why is that? Why is violence more tolerated than dropping the he-man pose?
We learn what it means to be a Man through our culture, and our culture imparts values to us --most of which we accept without thinking. The strongest kinds of ideologies are the ones that we don't even see as ideologies --the ones that we see as just facts of nature, or as 'the way things are.'
But we don't live in nature, we live in a human-constructed world, and things are the way they are because we made them that way.
Is there convincing evidence that male jealousy and possessiveness are biologically driven?
It's true that testosterone is associated with a quicker temper and a higher propensity for violence. But body chemistry can be affected by environment, and our cultural environment encourages anger and violence in certain situations, like when another man sleeps with your wife. This is supposed to be a challenge to your Manhood. In this situation, you are expected to react in a violent manner. Hormones can change behavior, but behavior can also change hormones. It's not a one way street.
I believe that the violence associated with 'infidelity' is not a reflection of hormonal, but of intellectual processes. We don't just have hormones, we have brains too, and it is our brains that come up with these hormonal explanations for cultural phenomena.
Racism was once supported by universally accepted 'scientific' research which showed certain races to be inferior to others. This was another cultural phenomenon that was supposed to be a reflection of the natural order. Of course it was all bullshit!
The idea that Masculinity is somehow an outgrowth of biological processes is a similar fallacy. Sorry to get academic on you, but on this score the academics happen to be correct: Masculinity is a construct.
And what is constructed can be deconstructed. Take you for instance: you were raised in a culture that abhors men who fail to live up to the ideals of Masculinity, and yet you have a fantasy of seeing your wife get fucked by another man. Maybe you're going against the grain because you're weird or damaged in some way, or maybe you just accidently deprogrammed yourself a little bit. Maybe society has to constantly reinforce and police these things because if it didn't THE WHOLE SHAM WOULD CRUMBLE!
A woman who loves to fuck and does so without shame is a powerful woman. You want your wife to be that woman. Why? Probably because you want to be sexually submissive to her. How shameful! You should be afraid to show your face in public! What if people found out???
Shame is a powerful aphrodisiac, so maybe the origins of your sexual needs are the very things I've mentioned: social norms, Masculinity, fear of public reprobation, etc. This is the primordial gumbo out of which your fantasy emerged, so maybe it's not all bad.
Before I get into the How-To, I want to talk about two elements of cuck culture that are suspiciously over-represented in cuckold pornography, and might make people feel bad about the lifestyle.
Alpha/Beta:
In a lot of cuckold pornography, the man who fucks the wife is referred to as an Alpha Male, and the cuckold as a Beta Male. This is entirely stupid.
The terminology comes from research into gorilla social groups, where there can only be one Alpha Male per group, usually the biggest and strongest. This analogy puts the cuckold in a weak position. But if you think about it, even a little, you realize that the cuckold is getting exactly what he wants. What do you call a person who gets exactly what he wants? Weak? I don't think so.
And what does the true cuck want? To give COMPLETE control to his wife.
If there's an Alpha in a true cuckold situation, it's the wife, not the guy she's fucking.
But if the wife in the situation is just doing it to please her husband, then he's the one in control. A man might pimp out his wife or girlfriend, and you wouldn't call him a cuck. A pimp is doing it for money, but if he were getting something else out of it, like sexual satisfaction, it wouldn't change the power dynamic. That guy's a controlling asshole, manipulating his wife for his own ends.
This is the paradox, often commented on, in S/M relationships. The line between who's the 'top' and who's the 'bottom' becomes blurred when you look at the interior states and motivations of the participants. This dynamic is made even more complex by adding another person to the mix because that third person's motives also have to be accounted for.
This can also be confusing for newbie cucks because they have a sexual need to be out of control. Being under the control of your wife and being under the control of some random guy with a big dick are two very different things. Both of them might be a turn on, but one of them is more likely to make you feel bad about yourself in the morning.
If the Alpha/Beta thing turns you or your wife on, great! Use it! But if it makes you feel bad about yourself, you should know that it's not a necessary part of the cuckold dynamic.
Racism:
Cuckolds and their wives are probably not more racist than average, but the culture we live in is racist, and like I said before, we accept the values and ideologies of our culture without even knowing that we are doing it. This might explain why so much cuckold pornography involves a black man fucking a white wife, and why so many cucks have this specific fantasy.
And even if cucks and their wives aren't racist, let's face it, most cuckold pornography is.
Look at the terminology associated with this side of cuck life--
Often the black man who is fucking a wife is referred to as "a BBC" (Big Black Cock not British Broadcasting Corporation). This reduces a living, complex person to their genitals. It might be that a big dick is all that the living, complex person is within the context of the cuckold scene, but it's still reductive and potentially offensive.
