Chastity, Chastity belt is a must. He doesn't need to be let out. He must never be allowed to be alone without a chastity belt. He will masturbate. No matter how much you believe him don't trust him not to masturbate. When someone masturbates their mind goes to a different place, They fanaticize. I feel this is a form of cheating. I also have all the vibrators locked up so he can't vibrate his clit to orgasm in his cage. A caged slave is an obedient slave. I watch my slave when he showers and cleans his cage then it goes back on when he is done cleaning it. This is also a great way to show you are in charge.
He might complain that it is uncomfortable at night due to erections. This will pass. Tell him if he ever asks to remove it, he will be punished. Enforcement is required.
4. Blackmail. This also is a must. If he doesn't think you will expose him or deny him what's the point of dominating him? You will hate dominating him. If he is your husband, you may never expose him, but he doesn't need to know this. This will bring him the desire of being a true slave. Every submissive has a true desire of being forced but has a hard time admitting it.
Photos and videos. Once you have him in chastity, he will begin to obey you take some pictures or videos of him in panties, having a but plug in his ass etc. great for blackmail and have fun with it. Sometimes I make Allen watch his videos of being fucked by my strap on.
4. Humiliation, Allen gets to pleasure me sometimes with a strap on sometimes his little dick, but he never knows until I tell him right before I am ready for pleasure. Plus, the look on his face is so perfect when I tell him to get the strap on that I need a real dick is priceless. He loves the humiliation. Humiliation comes in many different forms and can be very fun for the both of you. Once again explore it, have fun. The one piece of advice I give to many femdoms is read some stories get some ideas. Make a list of mild to extreme and proceed down the list and enjoy it. I spit in Allen's face call him names, make him admit that he needs my dick, make him admit he likes being fucked rather than fucking me and so much more. GET VERBAL
5. Paddling. On a average I will paddle Allen at least once a month now. 20 strokes with a paddle. In the beginning it was often till he realized that I was going to take my role serious. When he automatically assumed I was going to paddle him if he failed to complete a task, I knew he was ready. Every time he didn't obey another 20. I would tie him down and gag him and then punish him. I would lean over and ask him if he was going to obey once done. Use force with every stroke. It was almost always 20 sometimes 10 depending upon what it was. I can't stress enough how important this is. His bottom may turn black and blue, but it will recover. Remember he asked to be your slave and remind him of that often. At least 3 times a day in the beginning I was reminding him he asked to become my Slave.
6. Cross dressing. Cross dressing is strongly recommended. You need to remove his masculinity. I didn't really care for the cross dressing, but it has grown on me. He has removed all his underwear and cut them up in front of me. Have him pick out his own clothes when you go shopping make comments on how sexy he would be in it. Start with panties and move forward this will allow you to see him in a submissive state and also allow you to see his progress. (Psychological) Allen now only has panties, pantyhose, bra's, nighties skirts, tops and high heels as well as a wigs. Of course, he still has his work clothes but not in our closet, but I have him wearing ladies' pants and shirts in public. These clothes look like men's for the most part. (Once again psychological) When Allen is dressed as a sissy, he is even more submissive. I am bisexual so I love it when I have him servicing my pussy with his mouth and a strapon. He wears his skirts and his wigs in the house when the kids are not home. This has become intoxicating for me. He also wears his makeup and his nightie and his breast forms to bed every night. This is to reinforce his submission and I require it.
7. Pegging. A man can reach orgasm by hitting his prostate. You do not need to remove his chastity belt, in order for this to success,this is a different type of orgasm this is a prostate orgasm he will crave for more. The longer he is caged the better his orgasms will become by pegging. This is common. I peg Allen almost twice a week unless he is being punished. He has come to terms this is the way he gets to cum. I have him wearing a butt plug on a regular basis. I have him assume a position and I put it in him only I am allowed to remove it. By training his ass to except the butt plug he is able to receive my strap on. If I allow him to fuck me, he must have his butt plug in. Now he can't cum unless he has it in his ass. I am very proud my accomplishment. I use a strapon that squirts and fills his little pussy up full of fake cum or his cum. If he squirts out of his dick he must lick it up. (Mental) he now does this without being told. This is very exciting for me. At first it Disgusted me but like many other tasks this has turned out to be a turn on. I have spoken to a lot of dominants why so many enforce this on their slave, the response I got was that this is more effective then crossdressing and once combined the slave reaches a new level of submission.
