Taking generalizations not mentioned, like: "if it's easy it's not worth much" or "the more you put into something the more you'll get out" is a foundation that can easily be built upon. Is it not? So, men if you are reading this (and God I hope you all are) timing and purpose are the very nature of harnessing the power a (your) woman has over us (you). Being pleasant all day, agreeing often, holding hands, light kisses (a mere brush of the lips without any puckering) the softest moist drag of lower lips every time you get eye to eye and she looks at your lips is mandate. But holding hands, wrapping your arm around her waste and holding her solidly and meaning it, touching her shoulder and using your thumb to rub a knot out (if you feel one) and never over looking any chance to reinforce your admiration for her is all part of the connection process. When combined, is powerful and the most important need that any of us can do toward preparing the path of least resistance into the joys of mutual sexual satisfactions. Shared respect, dedication to each other along with devotion together adds up to the journey into the world of your well deserved sexual appetite, its attention and fulfillment. Prove to her that you deserve her and she will prove to you that she deserves you. By doing this, it's more than satisfactory coupling you both will enjoy much more so than any other path discussed above.
Women are touchy feely creatures and men are visual animals, we forget that by holding our chosen one's hand, women actually think we love them, they do. It burns right into and through the brain faster than any other single thing we as men can do. Hold her hand, walk with her as if no other woman in the world exists, truthfully, when you are holding your woman's hand, no other woman should exist. And who gets rewarded? You both do. Reinforce her dreams of singularity, dedication and give cause to her purpose, she will repay you so many times over the top and nothing can be more satisfying than having her take you to bed while being so ready to do things she would normally ignore doing. Fact is that you might actually have found that she is your "the one". If you remember that the connection is mental and holding her hand while you walk into the mall through the stores and back out to the car is physical and she will be smiling inside so large because you are giving her all she mentally really needs, your devotion.
Women look at the man holding another woman's hand as if berating it, judging its worthiness and belittling the hidden true reason for your need to connect. They do, even men do, and we say things like he's pussy whipped or I bet she gives good head but women think about jealousy, why? Because, it's connection they don't have or perhaps even deserve. To all those women you are walking past (and maybe you hope they would glance at you) and notice you at the mall, just know they usually don't. But, when you are holding a woman's hand and devoting your each and every thought to her existence, it actually gains you clout. Your worth as a man goes up each time they see you and all those ogling women in the mall will remember you. They will walk up and talk to you later when you go back and are alone. I have had them walk right up to me while my "the one" was in a changing booth, they conjure up some kind of a conversation just to see if your brains are in tact. But that's another story.
