First I would like to point out that most any wife can become a promiscuous wife. My wife had no plans of sleeping with someone else even though we often shared pillar talk and fantasized about it. This is something that goes slow but is very likely to happen if you take time to properly go about it. I would also like to point out that this might better be left fantasy. Either way, I plan to share thoughts of how this came about with my wife, the realities that you must be prepared to accept, and a few ideas that should be fun in your sex life regardless of where it leads.
First a little history. When my wife and I were in our young twenties, she worked in an upscale lingerie store in a mall. She could very easily be a lingerie model with her tight, fit, and tan little body. She had applied at several other stores. The lingerie store was the first to call, so she found herself working there. She wasn't looking specifically to work in such a store.
The store associates wore tasteful very but sexy dresses and usually relatively short. Tabi, my wife enjoyed her job. The store also had sexy outdoor attire for women, but clearly focused on indoor ware. Tabi received an employee discount for her purchases, so she often came home with pretty nice clothes, which is usually what she wore to work.
Tabi is known for being friendly, and many have described her personality as "Bubbly." She is petite at just over five feet barefooted. Her butt is round, curvy, and toned. She is athletic and firm. Her tits are not small or flat, but they are also not large. I would say like nice firm coconuts.
Tabi came home one day and mentioned that two men came in the store and shopped with her showing them various clothes. As she was checking them at the register with a few purchases, they told her they would like her number and said they had a well paying job for her. Tabi, being cautious and innocent, took their number instead and called them on her next break. They wanted her to be a dancer at a bachelor party. She politely declined and thanked them for the offer.
When Tabi first told me this, I was a little pissed. "Didn't they see your ring," I asked.
I wanted all the details. Ultimately there wasn't much to tell. I wasn't pissed at Tabi, but I thought it was a little offensive that two men had the audacity to ask my wife to dance, and for money, at a bachelor party. I was clearly jealous and at the same time proud. After the shock wore off I was actually turned on in a way. I found it to be quite erotic to my surprise.
The incident continued to come up. Eventually we were joking about it. Then it would come up during sex. I think I brought it up first, but it became clear that she did enjoy the attention. She was quite flattered.
Allow me to point out now that you must be careful what you wish for. Some things are best left a fantasy for some. Wife sharing might be for you, and it might very well not be. I never thought it was for me. My point is that you really need to answer this question before you pursue this very far, because it can and likely will happen for real if you do properly pursue it. I personally think it's well worth at least exploring, but you never know when the last opportunity to apply the breaks might be. Like I mentioned, I'll give you some things to think about and some ideas that will very likely lead to the real thing. I will also share a bit of my own experience not that yours will likely be the same.
Many couples choose to swing. They discuss it and often the two of them decide to try it. I'm not talking about those couples. I'm gong to discuss the couples where the husband has this fantasy, and his wife is reluctant for now or is unsure.
If you go through with walking your wife in to this, these are some things you must be prepared to deal with in your mind once you are past the point of no return. Remember, if your wife does sleep with another man, she, nor he, nor you, can take it back. The first time will likely be a shock to one or both of you. If this moves from fantasy to reality, consider the fact that another man will see your wife nude. He will touch and lick your wife in her intimate places. He will eventually have his dick inside your wife. He will fuck her for his own pleasure and enjoy her body. Most likely he will cum inside your wife. Men who fuck other men's wives are not likely to pull out, and they are unlikely to wear a condom since she is married. It's possible that he will breed your wife making her pregnant., but hopefully your wife will mitigate this possibility unless she wants to be pregnant. Men who fuck other men's wives will likely at least try to fuck your wife in her behind. I always let them know that my wife is not interested in anal. I told one friend that it was okay with me if she wanted it, but that I doubt that she does.
When men, even friends fuck your wife, they will do everything they want with her. Remember that it is sex for them, and they will try anything. They may get attached to her or at least want regular sex with her. If they know that you know, they might even tell you what they did and would like to do. I literally had a friend ask my permission to take my wife away for a weekend vacation. Most of these things come as somewhat of a shock regardless of what you were planning.
I'll tell you how to lead your wife into this, but what if she cheats before you realize that she is ready. Are you prepared for her to have sex without you present? I believe most wives are more comfortable with sleeping with someone else in privacy at least their first time. This is what happened to me.
I became somewhat obsessed with the idea and not necessarily with it actually happening. Someone else with my wife became an obsession for me. However, I was truly only obsessed with the erotic idea. We had fantasized and roll played. The fantasizing turned her on too, but she always said that the play was just for our own fun. I still thought it was a hot idea, but I was convinced that it wouldn't happen for real. I was satisfied with the fantasy.
It became more interesting to her as I convinced her to "Be sexy", and to "enjoy her sexuality." Soon she was wearing clothes that showed how sexy she is. I encouraged her to enjoy the attention of other men. I think this was a turning point. We played a few games with strangers. For example, we did the shoe shopping thing in short skirts and sometimes without panties. We had to visit New Orleans to find a store that still placed the shoes on the ladies feet, but we did it.
The shoe shopping was interesting. We did this a few times. We even tried it twice with the same guy on two separate occasions. He of course remembered her the first time so he took a few liberties by boldly looking up her skirt. He obviously enjoyed the visit more on the second occasion. I usually went in the store with her, but I would pretend not to be paying much attention. She would try to sit in front of a mirror whenever possible. She would wear a spaghetti strap mini dress that would barely cover her bottom when she sat down. The first few times she was still shy and would wear sexy panties. But after a few times of only showing her panties, she began to remove them for more of a rush. She was actually shaking a little the first time a guy strapped heels to her feet when she had on no panties. She chickened out at first from nervousness and tried to keep her legs together. Of course, her legs soon opened a little just to position her feet. Then I caught an excellent view of her smooth pussy and the thin strip up top. I could see up her dress in the mirror. Her facial expressions were priceless the whole time as so many thoughts raced through her little head. When we left the store she told me, "That was CRAZY hot."
She said the men would usually try to pretend that they weren't looking. She would look away at the shoes on her feet in a mirror so they could discreetly look up her dress. She also said the men usually would touch her legs and feet for no legitimate purpose.
One guy invited her to the back room of the store using the pretense that they had more shoes back there. She accepted but just for the purpose of giving him a better show. This was unplanned and I had wild thoughts going through my head. I knew he wanted her back there so he could try something with my wife. They were only gone about fifteen minutes, but it seemed forever. I was wondering what he was doing to my wife. I kept thinking is this it? Is she going to let him do it to her back there? Before they returned to the public part of the store, I had convinced myself that the salesman was doing it to my wife in the back room. I was not comfortable at all. I had butterflies in my stomach and a hard on at the same time. I wasn't mad at her, because I had lead her in to this.
She came out with new shoes on her feet; which we bought. I couldn't wait to get her out of that store and ask what happened. Turns out not much. I was thankful, because I wasn't ready. She said he did try though. She said he touched her very briefly. She told him she had to go but that she would be back shoe shopping again sometime. Tabi also admitted that it was extremely hot for her. It was the shere naughtiness that seemed to drive her mind wild. Later in our hotel room, we relived the experience in fantasy. Only in the fantasy version she allowed things to go further.
This was my first experience with all the mixed emotions. I was so jealous but extremely turned on. I kept wanting more as if I insisted on punishing myself. I kept looking for the next sexy game to play with her.
