How To Help A Woman Put On Her Coat

How to Help a Woman Put on Her Coat

You want to be a gentleman? And a kinkster! And show your woman you are both-- big time...?

First, get it out of your head that you are "helping" a woman put on her coat. "Helping" makes it sound like she is doing most of the (admittedly light) work and you are adding a bit of assistance. Man up. YOU are doing most of the work and

she's

assisting. It works better that way and you'll both love it. I don't care if she's an ardent feminist or a Domme. She'll thank you then... and later, which is gratifying -- especially if the later thanks includes "whipping" you into shape.

How to do it

(a kinked up version, with each step linked to a story...eventually)

You retrieve the coat from the hook or coat check. Don't make her walk to it, touch it, or carry it. She's already carrying a purse or clutch, and perhaps a discreet shopping bag containing a leather spanking skirt she bought as a surprise for you. Don't make her put her bags down!

As you approach your wife, girlfriend, date, play partner, step behind her, (may as well admire the view while you're there).

Grip the coat/jacket with its back to you. Your hands are on the shoulders, your fingers spreading the lapels, leaving the arm holes exposed.

Your wife/girlfriend/date/ play partner now does her small special part--deigning to raise her arms so that

you

can put the coat on her.

Let her know which arm you are going to do first. Simply say left arm or right arm. She'll get what you mean, especially if you're a Dom! If she's the Domme, she'll likely acquiesce a little command-giving power to you for a few seconds to serve her. If you don't know each other well or haven't practiced this before, let her know whether to raise her arm are lower it behind her. By raising, I mean her arms are in the 'hands up' position (like you're holding a gun on her - you will be using your 'love gun' on her later won't you?). You slide the open arm hole over her hand and slide the coat fully up her arm. She transfers her purse, clutch, shopping bag to the sleeved hand. You repeat the process on the other (now free) hand. This 'hands up' pose works best if the coat is long. You don't want the hem of the coat to touch the floor lest it get dirty or wet from the floor. The 'hands up' pose also works better (regardless of coat length ) if that's the position she and you like when she's cuffed to the wall or St Andrew's cross in your playroom/dungeon.

For a short coat or a jacket your wife/girlfriend/date/play partner can lower her arm to the side and back, as if she were starting to pose for having her arms tied behind, or having a binding arm sleeve applied. But more seriously... hold the coat as in step 3 and slide the arm hole over her hand and guide the sleeve up until her arm is fully covered. Repeat for the other arm.

Smooth the coat on her shoulders. A few smoothing strokes down her back also helps. Even if the coat is already smooth at the back... smooth it anyway, especially at the small of her back. She will appreciate it. You are likely in a public place so stop the smoothing at the small of her back. No need to smooth, slap, or caress her incredible, delectable ass just yet. "Smoothing" her front is also a 'no-no' in public.

While you are behind her you can whisper: "I love you!", or "I want you", or "Thank you, I had a lovely time" or "I want to tie you up in the dungeon in that 'hands up' pose you just did, spank your ass black and blue, then fuck your brains out". Whatever you say, keep it low. You're in public. Whispers are more powerful when only

she

hears it.

You may be aroused at this point. As you may be standing quite close behind her, she may be aware of your erection (or in-progress erection). No nudging or grinding motions, please. (That can wait until you get home--or to the car, at least). The line separating chivalrous gentleman from 'pig' is rather thin at this point. Do not cross that line. (If you get your kicks having sex while wearing a pig snout... not a problem... but again, wait until you get home.)

If the coat or jacket is luscious leather or rubber, and that's your kink, do not drool or grope/fondle the coat with or without her in it. You can lick/grope/fondle her and the coat when you get home.

You can use the above BASIC directions if, say, on a lunch with your mother or aunt. You should know instinctively which of the extra steps to leave out--or you're beyond my help.